tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88532761199674837232024-03-21T22:30:49.285+02:00Christina StefanescuCristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-49215783519914157272024-03-12T23:14:00.006+02:002024-03-12T23:14:27.468+02:00DESPRE SURORI. SAU ENGINEERED BABIES<p style="text-align: justify;"> "My Sister's Keeper"<span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWSpkve51GFlqhP0U7zJCAtUWYpbKNbGVQNJj-zKF3gRJwWG0DtHhHXv9Tg3J9ec51OQ-TpdCMgmSwSTmPByCw5qLJ9H8APQS14oHJg8Ve6VofJijG6QnpO9LlvpXmduodLMtp1NMGiAeaj6J8t0mwxjS8L1WhPC2SxgN99BJC9uo-xD__3YXeMMccWr7x/s439/my-sisters-keeper1.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="427" data-original-width="439" height="311" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWSpkve51GFlqhP0U7zJCAtUWYpbKNbGVQNJj-zKF3gRJwWG0DtHhHXv9Tg3J9ec51OQ-TpdCMgmSwSTmPByCw5qLJ9H8APQS14oHJg8Ve6VofJijG6QnpO9LlvpXmduodLMtp1NMGiAeaj6J8t0mwxjS8L1WhPC2SxgN99BJC9uo-xD__3YXeMMccWr7x/s320/my-sisters-keeper1.png" width="320" /></a></div><p></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Grea pelicul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Extrem de grea.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Credeam c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> e vorba despre surori.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">De fapt, r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i cu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntreb</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rile. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Îț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i pui o mul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ime de </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntreb</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ri, de-a lungul filmului.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">C</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">opiii vin pe lume ca accidente, coinciden</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e sau … engineered. Adic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sunt concepu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, proiecta</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i cu un scop anume. De exemplu, pentru a salva via</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a unei surori. Cum se simte mai t</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rziu, copilul construit genetic </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n acest scop?</span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Greu de r</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">spuns.</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- Oare filmul “My Sister’s Keeper” s-a bazat pe o poveste real</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">?</span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Da: fra</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii Molly </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i Adam Nash.</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- Sora cea mic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a fost “proiectat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">” ca donator pentru un transplant alogen (</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntre fra</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i). Cum se simte un copil, dup</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ce </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">elege rolul s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">u, responsabilitatea pe care o poart</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pe umeri? Cum se simte un copil care </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tie c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> este carcasa purt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">toare a unor piese de rezerv</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pentru sora sa?</span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Cov</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">itoarea responsabilitate.</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">E</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">xist</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mai multe tipuri de dragoste? Pot deveni rivale, la un moment dat? Mama </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i iube</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te fiica cea mare at</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t de mult, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t organizeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntregul univers (inclusiv pe ceilal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i copii) </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntru starea de (c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t se poate de) bine a copilului bolnav. Sora </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i iube</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te at</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t de mult sora </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t o las</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> plece. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntr-un univers mai bun </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i mai bl</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd.</span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Dragostea pare s</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> se dueleze uneori </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n acest scenariu. </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ns</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> un r</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">spuns clar este dificil.</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Câț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i copiii </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i cunosc drepturile asupra propriului corp? C</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i unde se </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nva</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a ceva?</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">R</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ne un subiect deschis.</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- Conform Dreptului Civil, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">manciparea este un act solemn sau un beneficiu legal, care are ca efect desfiinţarea puterii părinteşti sau a tutelei, conferind minorului dreptul de a se conduce singur în ce priveşte actele personale şi de a-şi administra patrimoniul în limitele unei capacităţi restrânse</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”. Dar ce este emanciparea medical</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">? C</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i auzit ultima oar</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> vorbindu-se despre a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a ceva </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n presa rom</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">neasc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">? Sau la </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">? Sau oriunde…</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Alt subiect deschis.</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- Scenariul se bazeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pe tema sacrificiului. Exist</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> o scar</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> valoric</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> conform c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">reia putem plasa sacrificiul cuiva </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">naintea altcuiva? Cine </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd a suferit cel mai tare:</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"></p><ul><li><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Sora cea mare: </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n timpul bolii sau c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd a sunat-o sora cea mai mic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pentru a-i spune c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a decis s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i mai doneze un rinichi?</span></li><li><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Sora cea mic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">: de c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te ori i-a ‘</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">mprumutat’ surorii mai mari c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te o buc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> din ea sau c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd a trebuit s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i anun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> i-a dat </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n judecat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, la numai 13 ani? Sau c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd a decis c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i va dona rinichiul surorii care oricum nu mai are mult de tr</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">it?</span></li><li><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Mama: c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd afl</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fiica cea mic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a dat-o </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n judecat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sau c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i pierde fiica cea mare pentru care luptase at</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">âț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia ani?</span></li></ul><p></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">…</span></span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUvNc2eNvFcT-YcvJGvDPuawt6yYLdfqzNz3-tNXAgdUMx9TY_hLiCkZOWSfmZJv5wr6QFJuFVheH2qINcw0oIesoANDG2NcAEisaAgnivQ_2_kyj73E4PL335-zv4icynMJs2nzdjiMqu5moERmdFvYV1c2B9LJXYH0qMjU1YFnyIQHTBjjhcBBJ7QZNt/s1024/my-sisters-keeper-1024x576.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="576" data-original-width="1024" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUvNc2eNvFcT-YcvJGvDPuawt6yYLdfqzNz3-tNXAgdUMx9TY_hLiCkZOWSfmZJv5wr6QFJuFVheH2qINcw0oIesoANDG2NcAEisaAgnivQ_2_kyj73E4PL335-zv4icynMJs2nzdjiMqu5moERmdFvYV1c2B9LJXYH0qMjU1YFnyIQHTBjjhcBBJ7QZNt/s320/my-sisters-keeper-1024x576.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Anna, protagonista filmului, a </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">înț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">eles esen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ialul. </span><p></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">A avut o sor</span></b><b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Chiar dac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> vorbe</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te despre ea la trecut, nu are cum s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fie vreodat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> o ex-. Nu exist</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ex-surori. </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Vizionați filmul. Este o excelentă lecție de viață. Și de moarte, dar moartea face parte din viață. </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1078588/ ">https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1078588/ </a></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;">Surse foto</p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><a href="https://www.pluggedin.com/movie-reviews">https://www.pluggedin.com/movie-reviews</a></p>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-61780176120177384102024-03-10T00:54:00.000+02:002024-03-10T00:54:28.823+02:00COPILUL NU ERA CE TREBUIE...<p><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: justify;">Auzeam discuția fără să vreau. Spațiile acestea noi de lucru permit uneori să auzim mai mult decât am vrea. Dar noua modă recomandă deschiderea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: justify;">..</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: justify;">. Parcă to</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: justify;">t</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: justify;">uși îmi pare rău că am auzit, pentru că vorbele mi-au zgâriat o memorie care nu se va mai da ștearsă.</span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Matei nu se poate obi</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nui cu noua dinamic</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”. </span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Doamna venise mai târziu, dar se alăturase grupului senină. Discutau ceva legat de o negociere</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i am crezut c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> este vorba de vreun coleg care nu se acomodeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> unui nou proiect sau stil de lucru. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Nu-l po</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i judeca dac</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu face fa</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">.”</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">E clar, echipa </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncearc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> g</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">seasc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> solu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii pentru colegul care nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i g</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">se</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te ritmul. Probabil e ultimul venit </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nah, nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i e u</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">or. Dar nu va fi abandonat, parc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">așa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> reiese din discu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“Adop</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia e o alegere.”.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">M</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> dezmeticesc brusc. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">D</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">oamna cochet</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> adoptase </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">cu ceva timp în urmă un copil. În ultima vreme, soțul se cam plictisise să fie tată - adopția venise la pachet cu greutățile inerente - și, dacă la început alesese să nu prea se implice, acum se gândea tot mai serios la divorț. Femeia făcuse greșeala să se destăinuie grupului cu care lucra (majoritatea erau femei), dar nu părea doborată de situație. A apucat să spună doar </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ș</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i c</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">s</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">toria e o alegere</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”. Colegele au tr</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">snit-o cu priviri scandalizate:</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Cum po</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i compara??? So</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ul e jum</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tatea ta, doar nu o s</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> accep</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i divor</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ul </span></i><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">pentru un copil</span></i></b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">? Du-l, drag</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">napoi, c</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu e</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ti nici prima, nici ultima. Sunt at</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tea familii care rup rela</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iile chiar cu copii</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i naturali</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Le spui</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ălora</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> c</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">copilul nu era ce trebuie</span></i></b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Iar Matei o s</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i revin</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">.</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n caz ca a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i uitat, Matei era so</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ul. Mda, cel plictisit de statutul de tat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i pu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">in (mai mult) gelos, probabil. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Doamna </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i revine din uluial</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> (mie mi-a luat mult mai mult) </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i poveste</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te cum Matei a dat semne care ar fi trebuit s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i dea de g</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndit, chiar de la </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nceput. A preferat s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i organizeze un alt dormitor, astfel </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t ea s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> doarm</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cu copila</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ul. Pentru a nu-l deranja noaptea. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nteleg c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> procesul de adop</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie se finalizase, iar ideea </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i apar</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">inuse chiar lui. Da, pre</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iosului so</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Sunt mam</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, a</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a cum mi-am dorit </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntotdeauna </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nimic nu va schimba asta.”</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Societatea are idei </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i trebuie s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> le rosteasc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, altfel </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tușește</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> grupul a mai f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">cut o ultima </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncercare:</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmTJmwAP2wVt-DFUjqYHZKLYcow3v8yJGCu7bhHaAKPvbhyZbIHYD5qpdOUcH1OG5_uZE693jP7O0MitnxgUHKaVdoQztp-9Q8O06mTKcUWm1N39B5q-0vE1peV9MunNJNliNb0Gy3Z-5MZDAxroA8H-q3-2-MjkfdI_1Xf9CMKNAHO6GWaMoeToXEvtOi/s300/mother-2-300x300.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="300" data-original-width="300" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmTJmwAP2wVt-DFUjqYHZKLYcow3v8yJGCu7bhHaAKPvbhyZbIHYD5qpdOUcH1OG5_uZE693jP7O0MitnxgUHKaVdoQztp-9Q8O06mTKcUWm1N39B5q-0vE1peV9MunNJNliNb0Gy3Z-5MZDAxroA8H-q3-2-MjkfdI_1Xf9CMKNAHO6GWaMoeToXEvtOi/s1600/mother-2-300x300.png" width="300" /></a></div><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Faci cum crezi, dar </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i-l ia alta. Cine te mai ia acum? </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ș</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i cu un copil…</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span><p></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">De-aci </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncolo nu am mai auzit, dar era clar c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> doamna se l</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">murise ce “sprijin” pot oferi colegele care </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i ofer</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> z</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">mbete “sincere” </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i sfaturi “binevoitoare”.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">M-am g</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndit </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ns</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> imediat la discu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iile nesf</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ite pe tema </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">colii rom</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ne</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ti: rezultate slabe la test</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ri, profesori revolta</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, elevi de necontrolat. Stop! De ce au ajuns elevii s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> afi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">eze o atitudine inacceptabil</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">? Cine sunt modelele lor? Nu cumva, elevii vin dintr-o familie care se p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">streaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> <span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“complet</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">” doar de gura lumii? Sau pentru c</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a au fost educa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, la rândul lor,</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cei doi p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i? </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><br /><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Un pastor </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i-a violat fiicele</span></i></b></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">O mama NU și-a apărat fiica, deși știa că este abuzată sexual</span></i></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. A preferat să își apere bărbatul. A explicat că nu l-a reclamat chiar ea, deși știa, pentru că nu voia să îl piardă sau să îi facă rău. Avea o ușoară uimire în glas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">: cum? Nu procedase corect?</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">O alt</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mam</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i-a l</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">sat fiica preadolescent</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n grija unui b</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rbat, iar ea a plecat la munc</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n str</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">in</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tate.</span></i></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> Avusese </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncredere </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n el, era partenerul ei. Feti</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a a fost g</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">sit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntr-o canapea. Decedat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. P</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n ultima clip</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă,</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> femeia a declarat c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i consider</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> partenerul vinovat. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">O mam</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i-a b</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tut copila p</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a omorat-o.</span></i></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> Nu era prima oar</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd o b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tea. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nu o oprea nimeni: nici vecinii, nici rudele cu care locuia, nici autorit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ile. De</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, cu siguran</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, un ochi versat ar fi observat c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> feti</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a nu era chiar fericit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. De ce nu o oprea nimeni? R</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">spunsul este halucinant: ca s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i fac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">u. Da, mamei, pentru</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> că</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> interesul superior al copilului este tot mai ignorat. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">O feti</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de 3 ani a fost abuzat</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de mam</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i de iubitul acesteia.</span></i></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> Personalul gr</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">dini</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ei a observat c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> micu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a este apatic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i l-a anun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">at pe tat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l biologic. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Feti</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de 11 ani abuzat</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sexual de bunic.</span></i></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> P</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tiau, dar nu voiau s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i fac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">u bunicului. P</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> la urm</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, tat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l a fost cel care a anun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">at poli</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia. NU MAMA, v</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> vine s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> crede</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i???</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Se pare că ar fi abuzat-o şi agresat-o sexual în mod repetat şi nimeni nu şi-ar fi dat seama</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> este o fraz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> des </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lnit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n reportajele pe aceast</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> tem</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Desigur, acestea sunt cazuri </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ocante, care au ajuns titluri la telejurnal. Dar mai este o categorie de copii: cei care nu merg la </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cu echimoze, nu dau semne c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ar fi abuza</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n vreun fel acas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, sunt cura</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, nu par s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> duc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> lips</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de nimic. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i totu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">,</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> la </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n grupul de amici sunt agresivi, au un vocabular uimitor de murdar, au o atitudine rebel</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, sunt de necontrolat, sunt arogan</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i cu adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii, nerecunosc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd autoritatea nim</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nui etc. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Unii dintre </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ace</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tia au parte de un alt fel de abuz: tr</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iesc </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntr-o familie care doar mimeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> armonia, sunt </span><b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">neiubi</span></b><b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></b><b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii fiind prea ocupa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i cu ei </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, sunt “iubi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i” prin cadouri (</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">mbr</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">minte, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">minte de firm</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, excursii, telefon de fi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e etc). Mai devreme sau mai t</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rziu, ajung s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i caute modele </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n exteriorul familiei (</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i chiar s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> se identifice cu acestea): “influenceri”, b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i/ fete rele, tineri care “au reu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">it </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n via</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">” (f</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> prea mult efort). </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Modelul social modern ne impune o rela</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie perfect</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Sau m</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">car aproape perfect</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Mediul online abund</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n sfaturi pentru cuplu. Teoriile legate de copii sunt numite cu un termen generic destul de ciudat: p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">eal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">De multe ori, p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii preiau sfatul care le convine, care se potrive</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te mai bine cuplul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ui</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> <span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“modern”, care zice-se c</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> trebuie s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fie primordial</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Se ajunge astfel, la situații nepotrivite</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n virtutea nevoii de socializare, copiii sunt </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nregimenta</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i de diminea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> seara la cre</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">șă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, gr</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">dini</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, before sau after school (a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii sunt p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i doar la micul dejun </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i la cin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, dar </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i atunci pe fug</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, pentru c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> timpul nu are r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">bdare)</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- deși uneori ar putea locui împreuna cu bunicii (sau măcar la mică distanță), ceea ce ar fi în avantajul copilului (și ar construi amintiri speciale), părinții preferă să apeleze la instituții</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- copiii ajung s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fie expu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i la atitudini</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, vocabular (</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">mă-ta</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sau </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tac-tu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu sunt apelative drăgăstoase)</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sau situa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii nepotrivite v</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rstei lor (ne am</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">gim crez</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> <span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“oricum v</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">d </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i aud a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a ceva </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i la </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">” sau “copiii din ziua de azi sunt altfel”)</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- uneori, adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii nu mai reu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">esc s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mimeze armonia. Nu e obligatoriu s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tie c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> unul dintre p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">eal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> (are pe altcineva)</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sau e agresiv</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">M</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">icu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii simt triste</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ea, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ngrijorarea, nervii. Observ</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> tonalitatea schimbat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntre p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i doare c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd tata devine arogant sau superior cu mama, sau mama </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l insult</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pe tata, c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd un pahar de vin devine obi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nuin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pentru p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rintele ignorat (chiar dac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> e savurat pe canapea, la un film, cic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">).</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- partenerul plecat </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">își reia la un moment dat locul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">minul conjugal, cu acelea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i hibe, ca doar oamenii nu sunt personaje de roman c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rora li se poate schimba firea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">,</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> din creion. De dragul copiilor, cic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i partenerul fidel iart</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i uit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, pentru c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a recomand</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> modelul social. Doar c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> atmosfera din cas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ne u</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">or toxic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, dar nimeni nu are interes s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> recunoasc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Iar copiii se intoxică cu emoțiile reziduale. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Nu conteaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, ajun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i la vremea dificil</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a adolescen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ei, unii copii fug de acas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> Sau iau în calcul un suicid. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Sau c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mai t</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rziu vor prelua modelele l</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ng</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> care au crescut: b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rbatul care </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tie c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> este iertat orice ar face sau femeia care renun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> la orice, chiar </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i la ea </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ns</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i pentru a nu fi </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nlocuit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rbat. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Motherhood = </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">the qualities or spirit of a mother</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Poate că este nevoie de o școală a părinților. Sau o mai bună consiliere a celor care își doresc să devină părinți. Și calitățile, și spiritul se educă. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">S</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> revenim la doamna care era sf</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tuit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de colege s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> renun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e la copil. Nu o s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> uit acel “</span><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">doar nu o s</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> accep</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i divor</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ul </span></i><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">pentru un copil</span></i></b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">?”. </span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n definitiv, mul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i fac jur</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">minte la cununie, apoi </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i le re</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nnoiesc dup</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> un timp - oare primul jur</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nt o fi expirat, de trebuie re</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nnoit? </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n schimb, copiii aud des “de abia a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tept s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cre</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ti, s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fii pe picioarele tale </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> te mu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i la casa ta”.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> Cât de dorit o fi fost copilul ai cărui părinți abia așteaptă să scape de el? Un fel de AMR. N</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e deranjeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> uneori grupurile de adolescen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i zgomoto</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, care n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">v</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lesc </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n sta</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iuni la munte sau la mare? Hmmm, sunt cei care au fost </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncuraja</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i fac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> un grup cu care s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> plece </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n vacan</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sunt “prea mari ca s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mai mearg</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cu p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii”. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">D</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e fapt, multor adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nu prea le face pl</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">cere s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i strice concediul cu “baby” (alt cuv</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ânt la modă). </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tiu ce pierd: concediul </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n 2 sau chiar 3 genera</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii este o binecuv</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntare</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">!</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Când ne îndepărtăm copiii (sau </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“nu observ</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m” c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> le-am produs suferin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">) suntem egoi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ti. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“Dragi părinți , aveți răbdare. Primii 20 de ani sunt de antrenament. Apoi vine partea ușoară a relației. Si dacă mai vor cu voi în vacanță , înseamnă că ați fost cei mai buni antrenori.” </span></span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">(Mirela Retegan)</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Relația d</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">intre p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i copii</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> (ca </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i cea dintre fra</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i) </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">este </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">printre pu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ținele permanente, despre care nu putem spune niciodată ca e </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“fost</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”. Nu exist</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> <span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“fostul meu tat</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">” sau “fosta mea fiic</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”. Nici m</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">car decesul nu modific</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> acest statut. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n schimb, orice altceva poate deveni </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">oricând </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“ex”. </span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Am mai scris despre copiii ignorați</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">: </span><a href="https://christinastefanescu.blogspot.com/2023/12/ce-grabit-e-orasul-acum-cand-se.html"><u><span class="15" style="color: blue; font-size: 12pt;">https://christinastefanescu.blogspot.com/2023/12/ce-grabit-e-orasul-acum-cand-se.html</span></u></a><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p align="justify" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-20727362783463827532023-12-14T09:34:00.000+02:002023-12-14T09:34:26.780+02:00Ce grăbit e orașul acum cȃnd se ȋntunecă devreme…<p> <span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">Ce grăbit e orașul acum cȃnd se ȋntunecă devreme…</span></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj62cSZglfhf_8Az3GtPkwUHjlLurDDNOSC12b-idxp8l4406bX-eAJRn9P1f_-V29JrsTenVYBeFKSJ50yOCz3pesNM70zfyE9i-fCTi3Ah5zO3lS11_KIiyfoWobrmQdof5H6ht32j0Bd1K04oaLJarwESfTRP3KHg0WLyiBQfjyeolXe3Dd9ulcsNSWn/s960/319805218_1802192893497594_8892999657835414820_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="540" data-original-width="960" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj62cSZglfhf_8Az3GtPkwUHjlLurDDNOSC12b-idxp8l4406bX-eAJRn9P1f_-V29JrsTenVYBeFKSJ50yOCz3pesNM70zfyE9i-fCTi3Ah5zO3lS11_KIiyfoWobrmQdof5H6ht32j0Bd1K04oaLJarwESfTRP3KHg0WLyiBQfjyeolXe3Dd9ulcsNSWn/s320/319805218_1802192893497594_8892999657835414820_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: inherit; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><p></p><div class="xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">E frig și parcă cerul vineţiu nu e de ȋncredere. Mă grăbesc spre staţie, pe străduţele animate de oameni care ies de la serviciu sau ȋși iau copiii de la grădiniţele și after-school-urile din zonă. </div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Grăbesc pasul pentru că observ troleibuzul care se pregătește să intre ȋn staţie. Nu e aglomeraţie, norocul meu, la ora asta ȋn general e lume multă. O tȃnără cu doi copii de grădiniţă și o doamnă cu o fetiţă de vreo 10 ani se suie <span style="font-family: inherit;"><a style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit;" tabindex="-1"></a></span>ȋnaintea mea. Urc și mă așez lȃngă o doamnă care se uită pe geam. Tȃnăra ȋși ȋnghesuie copiii strategic pe un scaun dublu. Fetiţa de 10 ani rămȃne ȋn picioare lȃngă mama ei care caută de zor ceva prin buzunare. Nu găsește, așa că trece la poșeta, apoi la ghiozdanul fetiţei. E clar, l-am uitat ȋn staţie, trebuie să ne ȋntoarcem, mormăie doamna. Doar din cauza ta, ţi-am zis să fii atentă, că eu sunt obosită. Tu ce treabă ai avut pȃnă acum? Ai stat ȋn bancă, doar atȃt. Pfff, și cȃtă treabă am acasă și acum mai pierdem timp și cu ȋntoarcerea și cine știe cȃnd vine următorul troleibuz. Să sperăm că ȋl mai găsim, roagă-te să nu ȋl fi luat deja cineva. Fetiţa tace. Mă gȃndesc cam ce a făcut pȃnă acum: s-a trezit pe la 7, pȃnă la prȃnz a fost la școala, o fi dat ceva teste sau a ascultat-o la ceva, a scris, o fi ȋncercat să stea liniștită ȋn bancă ȋn timp ce doamna a predat 2-3-4 materii, apoi a urmat programul de la afterschool cam ȋn aceeași notă. A avut o zi de muncă de vreo 10 ore. </div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Tȃnăra cu cei doi copii a sunat o prietenă și ȋi povestește ceva de la birou. Șefa e nedreaptă, după cȃte ȋnţeleg. Și cam ciufută. Băieţelul tușește rău și scoate ceva din ghiozdănel și ȋncearcă să ȋi arate ce a desenat la grădiniţă. Mama se enervează și ȋl admonestează: măi, copile, dar nu te mai astȃmperi? Uită-te și tu pe geam, că de-asta stai pe scaun. Fetiţa e puţin mai mare, să tot aibă vreo 5 ani. Reușește cumva să evadeze de pe scaun și vine lȃngă mine. Bate ritmic cu gheata ȋn piciorul scaunului. Doamna care uitase ceva ȋn staţie coboară nervoasă, ȋmpreună cu fetiţa care se străduiește să nu plȃngă. Neplăcută seară pentru puștoaică, ȋmi spun ȋn gȃnd. Decid că fetiţa de lȃngă mine are șanse mari să se lovească la o eventuală frȃnă bruscă a mașinii, așa că ȋi șoptesc să se ţină de bară. Îi place că o bag ȋn seamă, așa că ȋncearcă să se așeze lȃngă mine. Îi propun să o iau ȋn braţe și nu protestează. Nu mai așteaptă să o ȋntreb nimic și ȋncepe să ȋmi turuie o poezie ȋnvăţată astăzi. Nu apucă să termine, pentru că mama realizează că nu mai e pe scaunul pe care o așezase mai devreme, se răsucește și o smulge fulgerător cu o mȃnă. În cealaltă ţinea telefonul. Îi povestește prietenei, la telefon, că uite, dragă, asta se plimbă prin troleibuz și a deranjat- o pe o doamnă. I-aș spune că nu mă deranja deloc, dar nu am cum, pentru că nu pare dispusă să ȋși ȋntrerupă sau scurteze discuţia telefonică. Așa face și acasă, continuă mămica agasată, e numai ȋn picioarele mele, trăncăne tot timpul. Nu ȋnţelege niciunul că vin un pachet de nervi de la job, nu pricep că taică-său e obosit și nu are chef de ei, toată seara sunt pe capul nostru. Doamneeee, de ce s-or fi desfiinţat grădiniţele alea cu program săptămȃnal. Așa mi-ar plăcea să ȋi duc pe amȃndoi undeva lunea și să ii iau acasă doar ȋn weekend. Probabil prietena ȋi atrage atenţia că si-ar strica weekendurile cu iubi, așa că rectifică: nu cresc și ăștia mai repede, să fie la casa lor și să scap de ei... Taică-su nu are chef să se mai prostească cu ei, totuși de atăţia ani ȋţi ȋnchipui și tu că s-a săturat. Eu le tot spun să se uite cuminţi la televizor și să ne lase că mami și tati au nevoie să stea doar amȃndoi, că mi-e și mie dor de tati, că nu l-am văzut toată ziua (???), dar ne trezim tot timpul cu ei pe cap. Doamne, numai să nu mă lase al meu, că știi cum sunt bărbatii. Acum, cum ajungem, trebuie să mă lupt cu ei să mănȃnce repede, că vine el și nu vreau să ȋl obosească. Înţeleg că mimozul trebuie să găsească masa pusă, copiii cu mȃinile la spate, zȃmbind frumos și soţia pregătită să ȋi pună ȋn farfurie. Tȃnăra a coborȃt cu o staţie ȋnaintea mea, vorbind ȋn continuare la telefon și mȃnuindu-și copiii cu destulă ȋndemȃnare, astfel ȋncȃt nu a rămas niciunul ȋn troleibuz. Mă rog, nu le-a adresat nicio vorbă timp de vreo 12 staţii, dar asta e altă treabă. Îi fusese dor de prietenă, nu putea rata o bȃrfă mică, așa ca ȋntre fete. Oare cum vor fi cei doi copii mȃine la grădiniţă? Probabil vor fi copii din aceia atomici, care vorbesc de o zăpăcesc pe educatoare, ca pe tata nu au voie sa ȋl deranjeze. Și se vor tot ȋntreba de ce lui mami i-a fost dor de tati și de ei nu. Chiar așa, unde sunt ăia 7 ani de-acasă de care se tot vorbește? </div></div>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-40334478079089063622023-09-30T12:26:00.005+03:002023-09-30T12:26:41.041+03:00A INTERVENIT CEVA<p> <span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“A intervenit ceva.” - cea mai enervant</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> scuz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pentru a anula planurile. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i cea mai toxic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, dac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> este repetat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">/ inventat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> des.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> Nu am înțeles niciodată cum poate interveni ceva atunci când ai DEJA ceva stabilit. Ceva-ul este mai important, mai interesant? Mai ... cumva decât prietena/ prietenia?</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyAQjLX2yDN_r-2RRvGq6n7sRGjIIQaRe3eCdZOVsFMvaGwJjks8FHFWjy8exKKhxfujmXCmvREa-DmhAUOc63XDnJiqVEO3VqtxeHHoVBaM3rMDyPySxSu82IlqPX7bWpWNapzLHakA5O-S0LBjPJm74FfovKp5HvFXwR5RSZXeSwnM4C9R1SASjIMmDV/s1300/Why-I-choose-to-not-have-a-BFF-anymore.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="866" data-original-width="1300" height="266" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyAQjLX2yDN_r-2RRvGq6n7sRGjIIQaRe3eCdZOVsFMvaGwJjks8FHFWjy8exKKhxfujmXCmvREa-DmhAUOc63XDnJiqVEO3VqtxeHHoVBaM3rMDyPySxSu82IlqPX7bWpWNapzLHakA5O-S0LBjPJm74FfovKp5HvFXwR5RSZXeSwnM4C9R1SASjIMmDV/w400-h266/Why-I-choose-to-not-have-a-BFF-anymore.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">C</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd tot intervine ceva, m</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> love</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te miopia </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nu mai reu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">esc s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> v</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">d prietenia aia trainic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, pe care nimic nu o poate ataca. Pe vremuri, ‘prietena mea cea mai bun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">’ era o valoare incontestabil</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Sigur c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> se </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i stricau rela</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii: ap</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rea un b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iat/ b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rbat, una dintre amice </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i uita originile, ceva o f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">cea s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> renun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e la scara de valori care le oferise de fapt am</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndurora </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ansa de a fi prietene etc. Dar</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">,</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n general</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">,</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> era o rela</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie care s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">stra peste decenii, nemodificat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de schimb</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rile de stare civil</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, profesionale sau chiar de domiciliu.</span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Am v</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">zut de cur</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd “Karla og Katrine”, un film despre prietenia dintre dou</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> feti</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e. Poveste banal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, nu? Hmmm. Rar mai v</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">d ast</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">zi feti</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e, adolescente sau chiar tinere care s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i doreasc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mult de tot o ‘cea mai bun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> prieten</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">’, a</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a, ca </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">un fel de </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">sor</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, cu care s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">mpart</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> planuri, vacan</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e, dorin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e, dezam</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">giri. Parc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> <span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">‘cea mai bun</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> prieten</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">’ e din ce </span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n ce mai mult cea cu care </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">mpar</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ig</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rile (c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu te bate la cap, ca adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii ‘responsabili’), r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">sul zgomotos/ vulgar la adresa vreunei colege, senza</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iile tari (mda, chiar </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i alea nerecomandate), limbajul ‘modern’, asezonat cu vorbe complet nefeminine.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Copiii din clasele primare au obiceiul s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> scrie liste de prieteni. ‘</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">P</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rietena cea mai bun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">’ e un concept </span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">eles mai t</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rziu, de</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i un</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ele</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> prefer</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu fac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> <span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">‘discrimin</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ri’. Noi, adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii, c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd ne-om fi verificat ultima oara lista de prieteni? C</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd facem asta doar o dat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> la c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">âț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iva ani, s-ar putea s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> avem surpriza s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> descoperim c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> unii nici m</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">car nu mai sunt printre noi. Adic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> au </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncheiat socotelile pe lumea asta. De ceilal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i ne-am </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndep</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rtat sau i-am </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndep</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rtat. Prietenia cere aten</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie. Restul e egoism.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“A intervenit ceva” r</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ne </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n top. Urmeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> scuzele referitoare la timp/ timpuri: Scuze, n-am avut timp, n-am timp de nimic.”. Practic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i noi, adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii, acest tip de scuz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Doar c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">g</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m de seam</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> suntem observa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> și copiați</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de copii, care vor g</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">si un joc pe telefon mai interesant dec</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t o leap</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a jucat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cu prietenii pe aleea din fa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a blocului. Folosim des o mul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ime de defini</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii ale prieteniei, pentru a ne disculpa cumva </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n fa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a propriei con</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tiin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e: prieten este, cic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, cel care nu a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">teapt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nimic de la noi, nu se sup</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, ne suport</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> oricum, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n fa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ruia nu ne sim</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">im niciodat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> jena</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, indiferent ce am face sau cum ne-am purta etc. P</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i fix asta fac </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i copiii: sunt ei </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i (c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> doar a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a propov</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">duie</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te stilul modern de ‘parenting’) </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nu pricep de ce </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">se </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">sup</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> X sau Y:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- au promis c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ies </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n weekend la film, dar s-au r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">zg</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndit - ce e a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a grav? </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- au vorbit </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n vacan</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> stea </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">mpreun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n banc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, dar </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n prima zi de </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> o alt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> prieten</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> avea un telefon mai mi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">to, a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> au preferat-o pe ea. Ce, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">sta e motiv de sup</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rare?</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i-au propus s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mearg</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">mpreun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n excursie, dar ‘a ap</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rut ceva’ </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i contramandeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cu o zi </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nainte. Cum s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> te superi?</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- una dintre prietene este cea care decide mereu, nelu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n seam</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i op</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iunile celeilalte? Eh, ce s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> faci? A</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a e ea, mai autoritar</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihoRKR9s-Jytx7Hwu05S3Smisca1ZGLlc7I0E6tmyQcQxPWVh2ic_aMlJ9Wu5uV8zbqbRXXperqUlq2QOGQsNwhVte8t6J_89CIki63jzJcLMCs27ruih2ByF2p0_P6LiBQtpscbEP-dD6SNkv5vAfXpPk1UOEg0p88YWYcRspnheqhogyesuC56SiIJma/s230/230px-Best_Frends_Forever_-_Golden_Gate_bridge_guard_rail_166.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="153" data-original-width="230" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihoRKR9s-Jytx7Hwu05S3Smisca1ZGLlc7I0E6tmyQcQxPWVh2ic_aMlJ9Wu5uV8zbqbRXXperqUlq2QOGQsNwhVte8t6J_89CIki63jzJcLMCs27ruih2ByF2p0_P6LiBQtpscbEP-dD6SNkv5vAfXpPk1UOEg0p88YWYcRspnheqhogyesuC56SiIJma/w640-h426/230px-Best_Frends_Forever_-_Golden_Gate_bridge_guard_rail_166.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">Poate ar fi momentul s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> ne uit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">m la copiii no</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">tri</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">B</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ie</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">elul de azi va deveni la un moment dat so</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">i ar trebui s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">tie c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> trebuie s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">i ofere so</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">iei spa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">iu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">i timp pentru prietena/ prietenele ei. Feti</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">a de azi nu trebuie s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> creasc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> arogant</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">, intrigant</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">, egoist</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">, convins</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> totul se </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">nv</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">rte </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">n jurul ei, inclusiv prietenele care nu o vor p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">si niciodat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">. Mijloacele de comunicare moderne sunt confortabile, dar nu înlocuiesc pe nimeni. Prietenia e un stil de via</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">. A</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">a cum este </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">i snobismul, de altfel. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">Ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">i influen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">eaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> calitatea vie</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ii: </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ntre un ‘dau o fug</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"> la tine, am tren diminea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">’ </span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">i depresie poate fi distan</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: left;">a unui ecartament normal sau doar un pas.</span></div><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZIo_un_5UJZE9qYbS_pas5MHhuQ8hubQOc4g-Vt5H1cWisKPIaAPJqriP8BokPhzu5_AylcAU-UgILNDj_7A7YM15AIwZvW2184qfrumS-pqYkoebGGvlWoqNbzOVBZVbeMCWcH9yReVeUxV27WrtdG2Rnw7qYQfRlyQiHKat-5Kqju13rqJoM5dEi8Zr/s1000/photo-1535218934049-15c65386b8c3.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="667" data-original-width="1000" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZIo_un_5UJZE9qYbS_pas5MHhuQ8hubQOc4g-Vt5H1cWisKPIaAPJqriP8BokPhzu5_AylcAU-UgILNDj_7A7YM15AIwZvW2184qfrumS-pqYkoebGGvlWoqNbzOVBZVbeMCWcH9yReVeUxV27WrtdG2Rnw7qYQfRlyQiHKat-5Kqju13rqJoM5dEi8Zr/w640-h426/photo-1535218934049-15c65386b8c3.jpeg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-5847100046980575312023-09-20T07:38:00.005+03:002024-02-24T18:15:09.176+02:00BĂH, VOI ȘTIȚI CE ALCOOLICĂ SUNT EU?<p> <span color="var(--primary-text)" style="font-family: inherit; font-size: 0.9375rem; white-space-collapse: preserve;">Eram doar doi adulţi ȋn vagon. Nu mi s-a părut neapărat ceva ciudat, ȋn definitiv erau ultimele zile ale vacanţei de vară și adolescenţii bucureșteni petrec mult timp pe Valea Prahovei. M-am gȃndit că poate vor fi gălăgioși și nu voi putea dormi pȃnă la Brașov. M-am ȋnșelat. Au apărut imediat telefoanele mobile și au ȋnceput discuţiile mute pe Whatsapp si jocurile. În șoaptă sau chiar ȋn </span><span color="var(--primary-text)" style="font-family: inherit; font-size: 0.9375rem; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><a style="color: #385898; cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit;" tabindex="-1"></a></span><span color="var(--primary-text)" style="font-family: inherit; font-size: 0.9375rem; white-space-collapse: preserve;">tăcere. Dacă mă gȃndesc bine, era o liniște chiar ciudată. Aș fi preferat să vorbească ȋntre ei, să cȃnte, să glumească. </span></p><div class="x1yztbdb x1n2onr6 xh8yej3 x1ja2u2z" style="font-family: inherit; margin-bottom: 16px; position: relative; width: 500px; z-index: 0;"><div class="x1n2onr6 x1ja2u2z" style="font-family: inherit; position: relative; z-index: 0;"><div style="font-family: inherit;"><div style="font-family: inherit;"><div aria-describedby=":r50b: :r50c: :r50d: :r50f: :r50e:" aria-labelledby=":r50a:" aria-posinset="3" class="x1a2a7pz" role="article" style="font-family: inherit; outline: none;"><div class="x78zum5 xdt5ytf" style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; font-family: inherit;"><div class="x9f619 x1n2onr6 x1ja2u2z" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-family: inherit; position: relative; z-index: 0;"><div class="x78zum5 x1n2onr6 xh8yej3" style="display: flex; font-family: inherit; position: relative; width: 500px;"><div class="x9f619 x1n2onr6 x1ja2u2z x2bj2ny x1qpq9i9 xdney7k xu5ydu1 xt3gfkd xh8yej3 x6ikm8r x10wlt62 xquyuld" style="border-radius: max(0px, min(8px, ((100vw - 4px) - 100%) * 9999)) / 8px; box-shadow: 0 1px 2px var(--shadow-2); box-sizing: border-box; font-family: inherit; overflow: hidden; position: relative; width: 500px; z-index: 0;"><div style="font-family: inherit;"><div style="font-family: inherit;"><div style="font-family: inherit;"><div style="font-family: inherit;"><div style="font-family: inherit;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><div class="x1iorvi4 x1pi30zi x1l90r2v x1swvt13" data-ad-comet-preview="message" data-ad-preview="message" id=":r50c:" style="font-family: inherit; padding: 4px 16px 16px;"><div class="x78zum5 xdt5ytf xz62fqu x16ldp7u" style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; font-family: inherit; margin-bottom: -5px; margin-top: -5px;"><div class="xu06os2 x1ok221b" style="font-family: inherit; margin-bottom: 5px; margin-top: 5px;"><span class="x193iq5w xeuugli x13faqbe x1vvkbs x1xmvt09 x1lliihq x1s928wv xhkezso x1gmr53x x1cpjm7i x1fgarty x1943h6x xudqn12 x3x7a5m x6prxxf xvq8zen xo1l8bm xzsf02u x1yc453h" color="var(--primary-text)" dir="auto" style="display: block; font-family: inherit; font-size: 0.9375rem; line-height: 1.3333; max-width: 100%; min-width: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-word;"><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="font-family: inherit; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeTgoj08025dA8ljcRm5o7kzTdRoA-5-WpzHv-AHbpA7SDPDpAak2eMyV457vg_3mA2t7q3vsGCxVc7a1NwbZLJ65CePs6wd2DlbI9KX-obH7LH-5fBAXvkQHZvCCYNjjiReNr4GcoJNp4-5YGb_LTk6CALJhgzr-8OIc_HcdgoSlUH2BjcZ7SafbaaIS2/s640/242379466_4532383900115761_2231976084432211259_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="433" data-original-width="640" height="217" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeTgoj08025dA8ljcRm5o7kzTdRoA-5-WpzHv-AHbpA7SDPDpAak2eMyV457vg_3mA2t7q3vsGCxVc7a1NwbZLJ65CePs6wd2DlbI9KX-obH7LH-5fBAXvkQHZvCCYNjjiReNr4GcoJNp4-5YGb_LTk6CALJhgzr-8OIc_HcdgoSlUH2BjcZ7SafbaaIS2/s320/242379466_4532383900115761_2231976084432211259_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>M-am trezit după Cȃmpina. Nu din cauza zgomotului, pentru că vecinii mei de vagon erau ȋn continuare silenţioși. Discuţia celor de pe scaunele din spate, cumva șușotită, mă intriga. Cred că mi-a zgȃriat visul, de m-am trezit. O adolescentă de 16-17 ani le spunea colegelor “băh, voi știţi ce alcoolică sunt eu? Tare de tot. Eu beau ȋn fiecare zi. Cu prietenii lu’ tati, da’ ȋn fiecare zi cu altul.” Colegele tăceau. Păreau ușor intimidate. Nu știu dacă de epitetul ‘alcoolică’ sau de imaginea prietenilor lui tati perindȃndu-se zilnic prin apartamentul colegei. Tȃnăra a mai perorat preţ de cȃteva fraze, apoi s-a mutat ȋn celelălt capăt al vagonului, unde erau alţi prieteni. </div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="font-family: inherit; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Da, “alcoolică” mă marcase. Nu doar pentru că nu sunase deloc cochet, așa cum ar fi trebuit să fie orice descrie o adolescentă la vȃrsta lui ‘sweet sixteen’. M-a uimit și modul ȋn care se raportase tȃnăra la familie: folosea ȋncă formula gratifiantă ‘tati’ (nu ‘tata’ sau mai abruptul ‘taică-meu’). Nu am putut să nu mă ȋntreb dacă părinţii primeau ȋntr-adevăr zilnic vizite, așa cum susţinea adolescenta, dacă era invitată la un păhărel, dacă nu cumva aceste ȋntȃlniri aveau loc ȋn afara căminului. Greu de precizat. Un lucru era sigur ȋnsă: tȃnăra simţise nevoia să se remarce ȋn faţa colegilor. Nu fusese prea inspirată ȋn alegerea poveștii, dar ea părea să se simtă bine. Oare ce fel de copil fusese la 7 ani? Dar la 10? Cȃnd dispăruse nevoia naturală de cochetărie și apăruse interesul pentru compania unor adulţi cu care să bea? Și de ce?</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="font-family: inherit; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Cazurile de copii sau adolescenţi care consumă alcool ȋn timpul taberelor nu sunt chiar puţine. Și acum mă mai ȋntreb cum reușise, cu niște ani in urmă, o elevă de gimnaziu să strecoare ȋn bagaj o damigeană de 5 l de vin, fără ca părinţii să observe. Finalul a fost dramatic, ȋntrucȃt fetiţa s-a ȋmbătat și a căzut de la etajul pensiunii unde erau cazaţi. Parcurile bucureștene au fost de multe ori terenul ‘socializării’ unor grupuri de adolescenţi care au gustat bere, vin sau băuturi mai tari, uneori pȃnă a fost nevoie de intervenţia ambulanţei. Mă ȋntreb cum de părinţii nu știau cȃţi bani au copiii ȋn buzunar, cum de nu simţeau mirosul de băutură la ȋntoarcerea acestora acasă, cum de nu le verificau anturajul, cum de …</div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="font-family: inherit; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiU2iHCKjZ4PvcDZzM1ZgpqozMcRsmfhFP0-YXNjIe0c59kvKbEHfdTmXEq5Zrh50RqzsiLIcjFIgNp_62qXTBmlOz8kI9wTVbirqCNnjliUiaV45dCm0N3pWKA0GagTQh_jTjmK-BWssF1w7sQ_RCZrtDFoDyVHughwvg29M7E5wa2c32Bxiqh7Ftih2r7/s617/242486773_4532383850115766_4161598838233530934_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="416" data-original-width="617" height="216" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiU2iHCKjZ4PvcDZzM1ZgpqozMcRsmfhFP0-YXNjIe0c59kvKbEHfdTmXEq5Zrh50RqzsiLIcjFIgNp_62qXTBmlOz8kI9wTVbirqCNnjliUiaV45dCm0N3pWKA0GagTQh_jTjmK-BWssF1w7sQ_RCZrtDFoDyVHughwvg29M7E5wa2c32Bxiqh7Ftih2r7/s320/242486773_4532383850115766_4161598838233530934_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>A trecut doar o săptămȃnă din acest an școlar. Prima bătaie ȋntre elevi a fost deja mediatizată: două adolescente, pe terasa unui mall, ȋncurajate de spectatori de aceeași vȃrstă. Păreau colegi. Oare nu aveau ore? Sau ieșiseră să socializeze după ore? </div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="font-family: inherit; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Agresivitatea este la cote alarmante ȋn rȃndul elevilor, cel puţin ȋn București. Televiziunile au făcut rating mediatizȃnd grupul de 30 tineri care au atacat cu săbii și bȃte un elev al unui liceu bucureștean, cu cȃţiva ani ȋn urmă sau eleva abuzată și jefuită de cȃteva colege mai mari. Tot ȋn Capitală. Titlurile șocante impresionează, dar nu emoţionează. Nu suficient incat să schimbăm ceva. Nivelul agresivităţii crește constant, an de an. Pȃnă și elevii mici, din clasele primare se manifestă violent. În plus, la colţul unor licee, elevii pot cumpăra substanţe periculoase. Cum au ajuns autorităţile depășite de situaţie? </div></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="font-family: inherit; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Proiecte au tot existat. Și promisiuni. Dar situaţia nu pare să se domolească. Și atunci nu poţi să nu te ȋntrebi de ce s-a ajuns aici, ce a favorizat violenţa de la vȃrste tot mai mici? Programul copiilor care petrec tot mai multe ore ȋn afara căminului, ȋnregimentaţi ȋn diferite activităţi, cursuri etc? Accesul neȋngrădit la dispozitive electronice și internet? Implicarea tot mai scăzută a părinţilor ȋn cunoașterea grupului de prieteni/ anturajului? Interesul tot mai crescut al părinţilor ‘cool’ pentru metode ‘moderne’ de educaţie? Sau renunţarea la valorile autentice?</div><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhijMP3bCPVgjS9BRk6U4Y429anLM-Z7fitg47F8Ra64Kbs-GkX8ZmW02PLjYZZO7TGAD_NsOnPBL8j_ddwLdLF4DUVg4ueCB2i4XoSjsmBuuf5Cpx8CEdkvIwuUelp_5bCiLGYDk8GsLak7ggt3xcsF3c9KJ9sq0yuVwyqPD8dRu410OMFdORYIFxnf0Z8/s375/242523416_4532383723449112_9159400320072100295_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="259" data-original-width="375" height="221" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhijMP3bCPVgjS9BRk6U4Y429anLM-Z7fitg47F8Ra64Kbs-GkX8ZmW02PLjYZZO7TGAD_NsOnPBL8j_ddwLdLF4DUVg4ueCB2i4XoSjsmBuuf5Cpx8CEdkvIwuUelp_5bCiLGYDk8GsLak7ggt3xcsF3c9KJ9sq0yuVwyqPD8dRu410OMFdORYIFxnf0Z8/s320/242523416_4532383723449112_9159400320072100295_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div></div></span></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-88922246146863098382023-08-12T18:14:00.004+03:002023-08-13T09:21:12.410+03:00FAMILIA 24/ 7<p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ne apropiem de toamn</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> - </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncepe </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coala.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncepe </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coala - ne preg</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tim de baluri. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncep balurile - </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncep relat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rile care nu suscit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">prea mult interes, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">deși</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> atrag aten</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia asupra pericolelor care cresc de la an la an.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Povestea de la care am plecat este despre un bal al bobocilor desf</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">urat </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntr-un club din Regie, deci participan</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii erau de la un liceu bucure</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tean. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtq2ElWMoDq6lIwYbP0T0zDSIUbs5Q8FcU5GNC69ZNQBhxx7xQ0MfbTAIGWZMC3F2cm-_GA3XXbCWwB0nKPqiaWXvGbnWVAhZkHDiHsfN3RC5c5sqXP6zhh1YGycM2y_HdjZ5HWlJGPD3XnWPregeb21ynGqc1MYItndF-_owt27GLkgSW6VW8sNqeHYL3/s800/1_3_239829_1667556657_02728.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="497" data-original-width="800" height="199" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtq2ElWMoDq6lIwYbP0T0zDSIUbs5Q8FcU5GNC69ZNQBhxx7xQ0MfbTAIGWZMC3F2cm-_GA3XXbCWwB0nKPqiaWXvGbnWVAhZkHDiHsfN3RC5c5sqXP6zhh1YGycM2y_HdjZ5HWlJGPD3XnWPregeb21ynGqc1MYItndF-_owt27GLkgSW6VW8sNqeHYL3/s320/1_3_239829_1667556657_02728.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></p>Alcool, droguri, atmosfer</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> dubioas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> (ca s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu zic altfel), p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ngrijora</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> liceul nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i asum</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> responsabilitatea…</span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n primul r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd, nu se face gaur</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n cer dac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cineva alege s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu participe. Prezen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a NU e</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ste</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> obligatorie; p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii (unii) sunt cei care au lansat filozofia conform c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">reia absen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a de la minunatul eveniment ar juli iremediabil imaginea adolescentului proasp</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t licean. De fapt, balul trece pe locul en</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">pe </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n scurt timp, pentru c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> liceeni</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndreapt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> aten</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia spre alte evenimente (excursii, ie</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iri </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n mall etc).</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n al doilea r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd, participan</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii au deja experien</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a balurilor de ‘absolvire’ din clasa a IV-a </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i a VIII-a, organizate de p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i. Nici </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n cazul acestora</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coala nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i asumase responsabilitatea, pentru c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu ar fi avut de ce. Aceste evenimente sunt cerute de p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, nu de profesori. Ciclul de studii s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">-ar putea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> termina </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Dac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> balul de la finalul clasei a patra este organizat </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n timpul zilei </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i particip</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de multe ori </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii, cel de la finalul gimnaziului se organizeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> seara, cu finalitate spre sau chiar dup</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> miezul nop</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii. F</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">întrucât elevii</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> <span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“sunt mari, au </span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i ei nevoie de spa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iu”. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n Bucure</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ti, se opteaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de multe ori pentru cluburi simandicoase. Pre</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ul conteaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mai pu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">in. Spre deloc. Se fac propuneri </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i mama cea mai conving</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">toare (ta</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii nu prea se implic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n organizare) c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">âș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tig</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Adolescen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ilor de 14 ani li se ofer</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> o sear</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> (t</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rzie) la Clubul Diploma</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ilor, de exemplu. Nu conteaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> locul nu este destinat neap</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rat copiilor.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nainte de a </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncepe clasa a IX-a, urmeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> alt moment “DE NERATAT”, tot f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> implicarea </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">colii: </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lnirea bobocilor. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Scopul declarat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> este de cunoa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tere </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">NAINTE de prima zi de </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Cumva (prin intermediul FB, Instagram, Tik Tok etc), un grup mai </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ambițios</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> reu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> dea de to</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i (sau aproape to</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i) elevii </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nscri</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n clasa a IX-a la liceul X sau la liceul Y. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">U</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rmeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> un mesaj prin care “bobocii” sunt invita</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i la aceast</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lnire. Nu prea se men</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ioneaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> organizatorul, mesajul d</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cumva senza</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> este un eveniment oficial, deci p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii nu au nimic </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">mpotriva particip</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rii. Altfel nu se integreaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n noul colectiv, nu? </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Scopul nedeclarat este bă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lia pe roluri, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n func</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie de temperamente, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">care î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncep</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e, pe tăcute, fără a fi observați de adulți</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">; cei mai </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndr</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">zne</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i sau cu idei de emancipare/ eliberare </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i disput</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pozi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iile cu putere de decizie </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i influen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n clas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n parcul </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n care are loc </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lnirea </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">uneori, evenimentul se mută seara într-un club, că doar sunt la vârsta potrivită, nu? Doar ei între ei, elevii. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> La festivitatea de deschidere a anului </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">colar, dirigintele este pe o pozi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie de inferioritate, pentru c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> elevii se cunosc </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i func</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ioneaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> deja ca un grup, ba chiar au pus la cale ie</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iri, excursii etc.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Trendul ultimilor ani recomand</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> avem </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncredere </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n copii, pentru c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> vor </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ti </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntotdeauna s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> resping</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ceea ce nu este corect sau sigur, nu se vor implica </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n ac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iuni periculoase</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> etc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Cu alte cuvinte,</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> le punem pe umeri toat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> greutatea deciziilor importante din anii dificili ai adolescen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ei. Mul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nu mai accept</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ajutorul p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ilor dus-luat cu ma</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ina, prefer</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mearg</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> singuri sau </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n grupuri organizate </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n clas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. P</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii pierd contactul cu atmosfera real</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n care tr</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iesc copiii ajun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i adolescen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> și cred ceea ce le spun aceștia. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Prea pu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ini au ocazia s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> vad</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cum arat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> PE DIN</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">UNTRU loca</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia unde este organizat balul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, ÎN TIMPUL acestuia</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. La final, to</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i uit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> men</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ioneze c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> au v</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">zut </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i tineri</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">/e</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ame</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">/ e</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">utur</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sau droguri, mai degrab</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> dezbr</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ca</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i/ e dec</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t decen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i/ e, au fost aborda</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">optit de persoane necunoscute</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> etc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Acas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, familia consider</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> adolescentul s-a distrat </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i evenimentul a fost binevenit </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n via</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a acestuia</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> și </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“ce bine c</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă am avut încredere în simțul lui/ ei de răspundere și nu i-am tăiat aripile</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Mda, dar unde o fi simțul de răspundere al nostru, al părinților?</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">B</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">alurile sunt organizate de tot felul de entit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, care </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i asum</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mai mult sau mai pu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">in responsabilitatea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, unii dintre cei implicati fiind încă minori</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Sigur c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lile de bal, cluburile etc ar trebui s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fie vizitate de poli</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie, dar </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i evenimentul ar trebui anun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">at onest.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Nu e deloc corect sa etichet</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m genera</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia t</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ca iresponsabil</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, zgomotoas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, emancipat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, nemanierat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, de necontrolat, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n deriv</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, teribili</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ti, vulgari, f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> valori, cu modele</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> îndoielnice, iluzorii sau periculoase</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> etc. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n spatele adolescen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ilor este familia, care are responsabilitatea educ</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rii, form</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rii </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndrum</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rii lor. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Adolescenții</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sunt doar minori</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, în formare, expuși unui mediu care abundă în atracții. Și înregimentați de mici în diferite instituții în care sunt găzduiți uneori de dimineața până seara</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">: </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">grădiniță/ școală + after/ before school. Cei mai mulți copii petrec mai mult timp printre străini decât cu propria familie, așa încât nu e greu să devină influențați de anturaj și să ajungă să se simta în plus acasă. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">S</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu uit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m asta.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiS_3ZOT7VEaWGozlRBxy1zDfAyv-MkcwVeOKuBix9YY-YkzDtZRn2XqBsIaRFy76-5qlZq-Nhoaf3c4hxLmnvWIPFhAMlDnUconVdJ9S_FZZeQqdCPJdwacxZ8z6PuOG9Bo1xpUWNoJc972wO6bedcedElM9HfJgahsbONevYA0hXrBIyLco9jlfLe4SDs/s275/download%20(31).jpeg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="183" data-original-width="275" height="266" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiS_3ZOT7VEaWGozlRBxy1zDfAyv-MkcwVeOKuBix9YY-YkzDtZRn2XqBsIaRFy76-5qlZq-Nhoaf3c4hxLmnvWIPFhAMlDnUconVdJ9S_FZZeQqdCPJdwacxZ8z6PuOG9Bo1xpUWNoJc972wO6bedcedElM9HfJgahsbONevYA0hXrBIyLco9jlfLe4SDs/w400-h266/download%20(31).jpeg" width="400" /></a></div><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">S-</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a tot dat vina pe școală. Cei șapte ani de acasă au devenit doar vreo trei, cei dinainte de grădiniță (de preferat cu program lung). Am abandonat educația clasică, în detrimentul unor trenduri moderne, filozofii preluate de pe net sau de la </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">influenceri</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> (cu interes strict comercial), dar ne plângem ca societatea s-a schimbat profund. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Expunem tinerii de la v</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ârste tot mai mici la tot felul de experiențe, cică pentru a le oferi posibilitatea să aleagă, să cunoască. De fapt, este o expunere forțată, nu neapărat în beneficiul copilului</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, ci mai degrab</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă din cine știe ce neîmpliniri ale adulților. Nu cumva suntem cam duali (ca să nu spun ipocriți)? Familia este singura responsabilă de educația si viitorul copilului. Școlii i-a fost atribuit și rolul academic, dar și cel de agent de turism, organizator de eveniment</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, baby-sitter etc, așa încât a dispărut respectul pentru scopul ei de bază. P</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ărinții tind sa devină </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">prietenii</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> copiilor (că așa e modern), abandonând cel mai dificil rol din lume</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Care e non-stop, 24/ 7, permanent și definitiv. Și nu poate fi delegat nici către instituții, nici către alte persoane. Dacă vom reveni fiecare la rolul pe care ni l-am dorit (părinții își doresc copiii, nu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">?), fără să încurcăm rolurile, ne va fi bine. Și le va fi și copiilor noștri bine. Dacă nu, nu.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://educatieprinlectura.ro/cuvinte/1171-la-balul-bobocilor?fbclid=IwAR2PNviMaNrFEGlBum2YDzi8RMJWBd-srGfHlDJ-gdTJjQoLelXOISLuEQo"><u><span class="15" style="color: blue; font-size: 12pt;">https://educatieprinlectura.ro/cuvinte/1171-la-balul-bobocilor?fbclid=IwAR2PNviMaNrFEGlBum2YDzi8RMJWBd-srGfHlDJ-gdTJjQoLelXOISLuEQo</span></u></a><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-90150337708896616232023-08-07T14:02:00.004+03:002023-08-07T14:02:37.102+03:00ADOLESCENȚI SINGURI<p><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Reportajele din ultimele zile mi-au amintit de o întâmplare de acum câțiva ani.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">O fundație/ asociație a organizat un curs adresat liceenilor, un fel de tabără urbană</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">: proiectul s-a desf</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">urat zilnic, timp de vreo 6-8 ore </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i a avut loc la sediul unui centru de afaceri, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntr-o loca</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie central</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, care a pus la dispozi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie o sal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> potrivit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> activit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Fiind vorba despre</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> minori, p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii au semnat un acord de participare, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n care era men</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ionat orarul exact al fiec</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rei zile </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i locul unde urmau s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> se desf</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">oare cursurile (centrul de afaceri men</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ionat mai devreme). Adolescen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii au </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nv</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">at tehnici foto </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i video, de montaj </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i editare </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, la final, urmau s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> realizeze un scurt film pe o tem</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de actualitate.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Prima zi a debutat cu prezentarea programului, a trainerilor </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, evident, a participan</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ilor. Urm</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd trendul ultimilor ani, toat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> lumea s-a prezentat Ioana, Viorel, Maricica. Prea pu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ini au ad</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ugat </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i numele de familie. Cum programul zilnic era aglomerat, nu prea au fost alte momente </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n care s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> discute ulterior despre liceele de la care vin, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n ce zone locuiesc sau alte detalii de identificare.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Filmul de </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncheiere urma s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> prezinte o zi din via</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a unei adolescente dependente de droguri, interpret</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd scene de sevraj </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i inten</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia de suicid. La penultimul curs, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntr-o vineri, a fost redactat un scenariu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i adolescen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii au fost </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncuraja</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> filmeze singuri, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n weekendul care urma, pentru ca la ultima </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lnire s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> discute rezultatul. O t</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a propus s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> se filmeze la ea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> acasă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, a doua zi, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntruc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t are lumina perfect</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pentru filmare la 7 diminea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n plus, p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii nu sunt acas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, deci nu deranjeaz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> pe nimeni. Dincolo de faptul c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> domni</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">oara locuia </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n cel</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lalt cap</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t al Bucure</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tiului </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i copilul meu ar fi trebuit s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> plece la 5.30 de acas</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ca s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ajung</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> la ea la 7, mi-a displ</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">cut ideea din mai multe motive:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- de</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i colegi timp de c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">teva zile la acest curs, elevii nu se cuno</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">teau bine </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntre ei </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tiau dec</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t prenumele. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- de</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i domni</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">oara sus</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">inea c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii ei sunt </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nta</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> g</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">zduiasc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> filmarea, nimeni nu avea certitudinea c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fuseser</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> informa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> apartamentul </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i dormitorul (scena suicidului avea loc </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n dormitor) lor aveau s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fie invandate de vreo 15 adolescen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, timp de c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">teva ore. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n acord nu se men</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ionase nimic despre realizarea vreunui film (scopul cursului fusese achizi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ionarea de competen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e tehnice) </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, neexist</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd un traseu sigur pentru filmarea </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i vizionarea produsului video, scenele de sevraj, suicid etc ar fi putut ajunge ‘accidental’ </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n mediul online, ceea ce putea duce la interpret</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ri nepotrivite. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">- </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n acord, cursul urma s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> se desf</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">oare DOAR la centrul de afaceri, nu se men</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ionase nimic despre film</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ri matinale la o familie necunoscut</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Am informat </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n scris trainerii despre </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ngrijorarea mea </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i am primit urm</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">torul r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">spuns:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">cursul pune accentul pe invatarea de tip "learning by doing"</span></i><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></p><p class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span></i><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">tinerii </span></i><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">sunt</span></i><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> cei care s-au hotarat ca vor sa exerseze in afara zilelor incluse in program.</span></i><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span></i><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></p><p class="MsoNormal"><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“</span></span></i><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">intelegem ca aveti o atitudine mai precauta</span></i><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span></i><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">E</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">i, cam aici voiam s</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> ajung de fapt. </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">E</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ste la mod</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> ca adolescen</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ț</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ii s</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> fie </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">î</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ncuraja</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ț</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">i s</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> realizeze singuri c</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">â</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">t mai mult/ multe lucruri: s</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> c</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">l</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">toreasc</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> singuri, s</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">îș</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">i organizeze singuri diferite ac</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ț</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">iuni/ cluburi, s</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> se ocupe singuri de rezerv</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ri de c</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">l</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">torie, cazare etc. </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">S</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">unt abilit</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ăț</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">i sociale de care au nevoie, </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">î</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ntr-adev</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">r. </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">Î</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ns</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> adul</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ț</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ii trebuie s</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> r</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">m</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">â</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">n</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> al</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">turi: programul copiilor trebuie s</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> fie cunoscut de p</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">rin</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ț</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">i, modific</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">rile de orar trebuie anun</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ț</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ate imediat - asta cere un anumit rodaj, e drept, dar nu este imposibil. </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">A</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ș</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ti unde este </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ș</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">i ce face copilul t</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">u nu </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">î</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">nseamn</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> a-l urm</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ri, domina, sufoca. </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">A</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> ne da </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">î</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ns</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> deoparte </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">î</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">nseamn</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"> a rupe leg</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ă</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">turile </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">î</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ntre genera</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ț</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ii </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ș</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">i vom suferi cu to</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ț</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">ii </span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">î</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">n viitor. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguVGJgt2DhW9Tjd3SgXz-7glox6Dz5ByT9Jb295aKXdr_F2ikGja5Ug5FhxcHd03iyYv5vlYmowUWwBcWK-34L7mHRBztVfote-ChcSmLuTOxCZfjWYdRjaK2Xv6L2iC0DxqUHAtFG5SXegMTCNUJxx3K07EvTA7rwptOT5qIYYrNWbHV6uDuYAPWnwt82/s300/download%20(41).jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="168" data-original-width="300" height="168" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguVGJgt2DhW9Tjd3SgXz-7glox6Dz5ByT9Jb295aKXdr_F2ikGja5Ug5FhxcHd03iyYv5vlYmowUWwBcWK-34L7mHRBztVfote-ChcSmLuTOxCZfjWYdRjaK2Xv6L2iC0DxqUHAtFG5SXegMTCNUJxx3K07EvTA7rwptOT5qIYYrNWbHV6uDuYAPWnwt82/s1600/download%20(41).jpeg" width="300" /></a></div><br /><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><br /></span><p></p>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-58688709049428828382023-06-24T18:07:00.005+03:002023-06-25T08:23:09.156+03:00DE LA TAXELE DE NULIPARITATE ȘI CELIBAT LA TEAMA DE DIVORȚ<p> <b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“B</span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">el de 8 ani abuzat sexual de mam</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">”</span></span></i></b></p><p><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“Feti</span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a de 4 ani, b</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tut</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cu cruzime de concubinul mamei”</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“Un vasluian a agresat-o sexual pe fiica concubinei sale”</span></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“Feti</span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a de 9 ani, violat</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de concubinul mamei </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i de un prieten al acestora”</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“Femeia care </span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i-a l</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">sat concubinul s</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">-</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> agreseze sexual fetele minore”</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“Femeie acuzat</span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> c</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">-ar fi permis concubinului </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i unui prieten al acestuia s</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">-</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> violeze fiica de 9 ani”</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“Adolescent</span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> agresat</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sexual de tat</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l vitreg”</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“Feti</span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de 9 ani, agresat</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de bunic</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i abuzat</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sexual de fostul concubin al mamei”</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“B</span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">el de 2 ani, agresat sexual de ta</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l s</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">u”</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">“B</span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iat de 11 ani, agresat sexual de c</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tre doi b</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rba</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, cu acordul mamei”</span></i></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgr6-BoQxgPYgxnqWdWuvUzQm9GYxpF57U9KpQOAwitKfXuVZKh85U7jAv3XdkULYbKJov3wxwkddVQpcHKnBEPg7xuH8oezo2ax7dXfKqs_VFGaJUIgzPYf2oLS9dRmd-XzVN4sb3aO0pNYmRNz2CJGj8nAsIuYKYq61wqT-em5vCM7g60S-J0aHsoLwh/s260/images%20(1).jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="193" data-original-width="260" height="193" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjgr6-BoQxgPYgxnqWdWuvUzQm9GYxpF57U9KpQOAwitKfXuVZKh85U7jAv3XdkULYbKJov3wxwkddVQpcHKnBEPg7xuH8oezo2ax7dXfKqs_VFGaJUIgzPYf2oLS9dRmd-XzVN4sb3aO0pNYmRNz2CJGj8nAsIuYKYq61wqT-em5vCM7g60S-J0aHsoLwh/s1600/images%20(1).jpg" width="260" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Titlurile curg, iar lista poate continua la nesf</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">și</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Articolele sunt de anul acesta, de acum 2 ani, de acum 8 ani, de cine </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tie de c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd … Agresiunile </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n familie nu sunt rare. Cum nu sunt rare nici agresiunile </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i abuzurile sexuale asupra copiilor. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ajungi s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> te </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntrebi ce fel de mam</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> este femeia care </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i vede copilul ca pe un obiect sau </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l ofer</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> unui cunoscut, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n schimbul unei sume de bani sau cine </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tie c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ror servicii. Este greu de descifrat motivul pentru care o mam</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> a putut s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i lase fiica adolescent</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cu un b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rbat,</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n Rom</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nia, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n timp ce ea a plecat din </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ar</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Feti</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a a fost ucis</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de omul cunoscut ca fiind impulsiv. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ne pl</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ngem de agresivitatea care cre</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te constant </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i care pare s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> se extind</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ca o plag</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. A existat dintotdeauna o filozofie tradi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ional</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> conform c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăr</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">eia femeia trebui</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">e</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> aib</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> un b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rbat al</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">turi - desigur, de preferat, un so</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> aib</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> copii, c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> doar de asta e femeie, nu? Dacă întrebi cunoștințele agresorului (vecini, rude etc) ce fel de om era, toți spun că era politicos, dădea bună ziua si era liniștit. Doar ca să nu îi "strice casa", ignorand atmosfera în care cresc copiii. Dac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n 1989 putem spune c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> era o politic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> impus</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de autorit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i, din 1990 </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncoace nu s-a promovat independen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a femeii. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n loc s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> renun</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">țe</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> la studii devreme pentru a-</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncepe via</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a de so</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie sau concubin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> (ceea ce implic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> munc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n gospod</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rie, copii, s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fie la dispozi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ia b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rbatului </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i uneori s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l asculte cu sfin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">enie etc), ar fi fost de preferat s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> fie </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncurajat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> studieze, s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ob</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">in</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> o diplom</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă sau un certificat profesional</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> aib</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> o meserie care s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i permit</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> se </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntre</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">in</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Sigur c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">coala nu ar fi putut sus</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ine </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n exclusivitate a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a ceva, iar familiile din care provin adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii cu comportamente de acest tip, nici at</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t. Ar fi trebuit s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> avem un sistem extrem de bine pus la punct, care sa promoveze politici sociale </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n beneficiul acestei categorii sociale. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n multe cazuri, mama este ea </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ns</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i abuzat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tie unde exist</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ad</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">posturi pentru femei, institu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii care s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i ofere sprijin. Mama r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ne l</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ng</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> abuzator, iar copiii ajung peste ani adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i crescu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntr-un mediu toxic, deci lan</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ul abuzurilor continu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Ne scandaliz</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> elevii</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> mai studi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">z</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> opere literare </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n care b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rbatul casei este dominator, agresiv, violent etc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> (de exemplu "Ion")</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ns</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu observ</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> nu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">există </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">cursuri moderne, care s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> crească stima de sine și să defineasc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> comportamentele inacceptabile: violen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a, abuzurile de toate tipurile (fizice, emo</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ionale, verbale etc), situarea unuia dintre membrii familiei pe o pozi</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie de for</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ță</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cu drepturi depline asupra celorlal</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i etc. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nu este vorba doar de mediul urban: exista un trend </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n favoarea cuplului, ignor</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd nevoile normale ale celor mici. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">N</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">u</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> este chiar de mirare c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> exist</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> credin</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> o familie, fie ea </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i toxic</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, este singurul mediu care poate asigura cre</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">terea unui copil. Poate c</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> doi adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i pot contribui financiar mai </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ușor</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> la </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">creșterea</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> celor mici, </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">însă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> <span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">‘familia’ </span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n care mama </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ndreapt</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntreaga aten</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ie asupra tat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lui nu poate crea dec</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">t viitori adul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i cu probleme (sunt at</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tea cazuri </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n care mama suport</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> alcoolismul tat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">lui, aventurile acestuia, vocabularul vulgar</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n fa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a copiilor, intimidarea acestora, p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">sirea domiciliului etc, singurul ei scop fiind </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntoarcerea so</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ului).</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOYIyNRptOQ_XJut5STqM2imQzOAGYb7PXN1N4z6KBKb7qA6dJpIMEac5_vVhXQV41FDwF0W4_bUs-b4LeGLKl54SQMmuxP6TFtMNV4i08rXKLlbmYiJVmN6ESawyz4bvrDzIqeG9xisIvnka6LyxSyjYpbG2fGfHUQ_6sIsTmRXv2W3_11c7mUSi3Qwqj/s900/madres-toxicas.webp" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="600" data-original-width="900" height="206" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOYIyNRptOQ_XJut5STqM2imQzOAGYb7PXN1N4z6KBKb7qA6dJpIMEac5_vVhXQV41FDwF0W4_bUs-b4LeGLKl54SQMmuxP6TFtMNV4i08rXKLlbmYiJVmN6ESawyz4bvrDzIqeG9xisIvnka6LyxSyjYpbG2fGfHUQ_6sIsTmRXv2W3_11c7mUSi3Qwqj/w323-h206/madres-toxicas.webp" width="323" /></a></div>Este o urmare a politicii duse de regimul comunist: decretul 779/ 1966 a modificat prevederile Codului Penal, astfel <span style="font-size: 12pt;">încât</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">divorțul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ajunsese un lux </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n Rom</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nia ceau</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ist</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">. Procesele de divor</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> erau precedate de o lung</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> perioad</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> de a</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">teptare (ani de zile), timp </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n care se f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ceau tentative de reconciliere. Doar familia este minunat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, nu? Chiar dac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> cel care solicita divor</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ul (</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n general femeia) era abuzat, dominat, umilit etc. Un divor</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> rapid putea fi ob</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">inut doar pe baza unui diagnostic din sfera psihiatric</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sau dac</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> p</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tul emigrase, ceea ce </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">cea un cet</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ean periculos </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i atunci statul accepta s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">l elibereze pe reclamant. Infidelitatea nu era un motiv suficient de bun pentru a s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ri peste obligatorii pa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i ai reconcilierii. De agresivitate nici nu discut</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">m, doar nu e mare lucru o palm</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, nu? Comuni</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">tii </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i-au atins scopul: rata divor</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">urilor a sc</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">zut considerabil, primul an dup</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> faimosul decret </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ncheindu-se cu mai pu</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">in de 100 divor</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">uri!!! Fericire maxim</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n Rom</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nia…</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n acela</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i an au fost instituite </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i celebrele (de</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i mul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i le-au uitat) taxe de celibat </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nuliparitate. Un cuplu f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> copii era cam inutil societ</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ăț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ii comuniste - de</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i nu prea f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ceau ei diferen</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">a </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntre cuplu </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i familie. Din 1977, taxa a fost aplicat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i b</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rba</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ilor celibatari, cu vârsta </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntre 25 </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i 50 ani, dar </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i femeilor singure, cu v</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">rsta </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ntre 20 </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i 45 ani, care nu aveau copii, reprezent</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">â</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">nd 10% din salariu.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> Deci femeile ar fi trebuit să aibă primul copil imediat după 20 ani. În ultimii ani, prima naștere a apărut și la vârste mult sub 20 ani, așa că ar cam fi momentul să ne îngrijorăm. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ne-am fi </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">așteptat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> ca societatea s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">îș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i modifice optica </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i femeia s</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> aib</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> curajul (</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">i </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n spa</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">iul rural sau </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n medii defavorizate) de a fi singur</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> sau a cre</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ș</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">te singur</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> copil</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ul</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, f</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">r</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> riscul de a fi ‘discutat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">’ pe la col</span></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ț</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">uri, considerat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> dificil</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, ciudat</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">ă</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">, etc.Avem un Minister al Familiei. Ce facem cu el? </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinLnncfrZS2Y-o_6_skFu8q0VljLQR4oA5pT7M8YoGHMqfkW30v2-banrgFn49Nun0kXeFYaTArz8A9mRU9FV7vcMCjNft5k7h7YXHgqoCldFcIPpuN8TcysFfSRsUoiVY_-Mda91fie5FPPYJyLbqw1g891DLWz1-gW0ywQeUBDXBJzhVZu-tPmZ0iVom/s300/images.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="168" data-original-width="300" height="168" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEinLnncfrZS2Y-o_6_skFu8q0VljLQR4oA5pT7M8YoGHMqfkW30v2-banrgFn49Nun0kXeFYaTArz8A9mRU9FV7vcMCjNft5k7h7YXHgqoCldFcIPpuN8TcysFfSRsUoiVY_-Mda91fie5FPPYJyLbqw1g891DLWz1-gW0ywQeUBDXBJzhVZu-tPmZ0iVom/s1600/images.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><br /></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-1273933571231635552023-01-27T11:52:00.027+02:002023-02-01T10:47:44.222+02:00PING-PONG DE AMBIȚII? PĂRINȚI DIN GREȘEALĂ ÎNTR-O SOCIETATE IDIOTIZATĂ? LA SFAT CU NOI ÎNȘINE<p><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-align: justify;">Mi-a plăcut ȋntotdeauna ping-pong-ul, m-au fascinat ritmicitatea loviturilor și miscările scurte, cu efect ale jucătorilor. Nu am ȋncercat decȃt pentru amuzament, nu am ȋndrăznit să intru ȋn luptă cu vreun ȋmpătimit al jocului. Discuţiile de azi pe marginea tendinţelor actuale ȋn literatura pentru copii ȋmi aduc cumva aminte de mingiuţa albă, lovită cu dexteritate, uneori cu ȋnverșunare de cei doi adversari. Media abundă ȋn discuţii pe FB, pe forumuri online, talk-show-uri TV. În scurt timp va apare un alt titlu sau o altă direcţie care va stȃrni interesul și subiectul fierbinte astăzi va fi uitat. Însă tendinţa ȋși va fi atins ţinta.</span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdg-IRvrVoDFP_yLR5IQzJhR3xwqI9rdnb6tQfCoAIQ92SLk1Kcvr1lhGMTN-1x1RFEy5PEwF1uc0fqEUzRlaSTN0FwmjKBVoBFRfF8-FmUSbCLjPlMxKa8MutyR1tUH2hOU6gZlSQPvWA_tmz2Z3e3MqnFLwOLe5C4O2fOZt0GLsaJJbFyluFW6Yyrg/s1803/1a84caf0-23dc-4b97-bb5c-75b7ef801c03.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1803" data-original-width="1101" height="471" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdg-IRvrVoDFP_yLR5IQzJhR3xwqI9rdnb6tQfCoAIQ92SLk1Kcvr1lhGMTN-1x1RFEy5PEwF1uc0fqEUzRlaSTN0FwmjKBVoBFRfF8-FmUSbCLjPlMxKa8MutyR1tUH2hOU6gZlSQPvWA_tmz2Z3e3MqnFLwOLe5C4O2fOZt0GLsaJJbFyluFW6Yyrg/w349-h471/1a84caf0-23dc-4b97-bb5c-75b7ef801c03.jpg" width="349" /></a></span></div><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Am crescut ȋn două case cu muuulte cărţi, adunate de trei generaţii Bibliotecile noastre erau admirate de colegii mei care se amuzau numărȃnd volumele. Nu au ajuns niciodată la un rezultat concret, pentru că rafturile ofereau cȃteva mii de volume mai vechi sau mai noi, ȋn cȃteva limbi, mai scumpe sau mai puţin scumpe, mai mari sau mai mici, cartonate sau nu, colorate sau sobre. Prietenii apropiaţi erau și ei cititori pasionaţi, așa că socializam (cum se spune azi) făcȃnd schimburi (cu ȋmprumut), povestind cȃte un volum. Jocurile noastre se bazau mult pe lecturi: am fost pe rȃnd personaje din Coliba unchiului Tom, Copiii Căpitanului Grant, volumele lui Vlad Mușatescu sau ale lui Jules Verne. Pe măsura ce creșteam, părinţii ne sugerau titluri noi. Pe unele le citeam, pe altele, nu. Dar citeam MULT. Și ni se atrăgea atenţia cȃnd lecturile ne ȋnfierbȃntau prea tare imaginaţia și stȃrneau derapaje ȋn atitudine.</span></div></span><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCJCwHl0Ru7ZybioCrnZ-GcIEEkvlvdkMLR606PiPT1SktICk9dS_ib-BX6VBHJfW4_G-FnRtOl-0og0oJvYfKgwSZwCD0a4SmoCxu7BZprXG_YROnzx2NZk1k9sMaAsHMT9k7qOLpiOHaxjOJJb-VIddhfve_sVFaXQR54XWQ-pbetK13Oe3eJ3EFCA/s1837/d116339d-3c89-4afd-ae9e-aafc98f0ad1c.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1837" data-original-width="1339" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCJCwHl0Ru7ZybioCrnZ-GcIEEkvlvdkMLR606PiPT1SktICk9dS_ib-BX6VBHJfW4_G-FnRtOl-0og0oJvYfKgwSZwCD0a4SmoCxu7BZprXG_YROnzx2NZk1k9sMaAsHMT9k7qOLpiOHaxjOJJb-VIddhfve_sVFaXQR54XWQ-pbetK13Oe3eJ3EFCA/w208-h320/d116339d-3c89-4afd-ae9e-aafc98f0ad1c.jpg" width="208" /></a></div><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Î</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">n ultimii ani, trei subiecte au cam ȋnfierbȃntat grupurile de lectură de pe FB: ce facem cu cărţile vechi? cumpărăm cărţi noi sau le oferim copiilor ediţiile vechi, pe care le avem deja ȋn bibliotecă? le cumpărăm copiilor cărţi nu tocmai educative (ca să folosesc un eufemism), un soi de jurnale din care ȋnvaţă cum să se descurce ȋn viaţă? Nu, nu de la specialiști, experţi ȋn anumite domenii etc, ci de la alţi copii. Unii mai … șmecheri. Bine, autorii nu sunt copii, ba din contră. Și nici cei care au făcut posibilă apariţia volumelor. Paginile acestor cărţi sunt mai mult decȃt facile, folosesc cuvinte puţine și simple, abundă ȋn desene creionate de o mȃnă grabită, un fel de desene naive, din linii, care nu stȃrnesc nicio emoţie. Genul acesta de lectură este la modă printre copiii din clasele primare mai ales: nu solicită răbdarea, pentru ca deznodămȃntul este ȋntȃlnit aproape pe fiecare pagină, nu necesită deslușirea vreunei metafore, nu testează nivelul de cultură generală sau abilităţile de descifrare a mesajului. Îndoctrinează doar. Transmit subtil un mesaj: e ȋn regulă să fii viclean dacă așa ajungi la rezultatul dorit; e ȋn regulă să nu depui prea mult efort la studiu; e ȋn regulă să ȋncalci convenienţele sociale. De fapt … totul e … OK.</span></div></span><div><br /><span style="font-size: 12pt;"></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjC5j99-edaM5dSTgznAXz7kX6sX4C_dV83QGZJ8fW5esUhjcrlDh9zn31r93LvQ6RK658NOoSErkK-Jo7vVy7n_1BaNuM11CQygKjfgkfSMjz7gNz8nnng790Gh8NImkS2igIkoW6Y5z0dgrq9mN4WhJJE4eIuGLUDydGU5SygTz1YJfvgiFq2HY07Fg/s1864/a841bc59-b469-4114-8f61-440e920b6eb4.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1864" data-original-width="1213" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjC5j99-edaM5dSTgznAXz7kX6sX4C_dV83QGZJ8fW5esUhjcrlDh9zn31r93LvQ6RK658NOoSErkK-Jo7vVy7n_1BaNuM11CQygKjfgkfSMjz7gNz8nnng790Gh8NImkS2igIkoW6Y5z0dgrq9mN4WhJJE4eIuGLUDydGU5SygTz1YJfvgiFq2HY07Fg/w236-h320/a841bc59-b469-4114-8f61-440e920b6eb4.jpg" width="236" /></a></div><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Dacă primele două ‘dileme’ nu stȃrnesc pasiuni prea aprige, a treia a fost o adevărată ȋncercare cȃnd fiica mea era la vȃrsta acestor lecturi. Colegii ei veneau la școală cu minunatele volume sau reproduceau pasaje de ‘ȋnţelepciune’ care ȋi ridicau ȋn ochii celorlalţi. Nu convingerea copilului că aceste volume (scumpe și multe, că, nah, nu era rentabil să scoată un singur număr, trebuia să fie ceva gen roman-fluviu, ȋn enșpe volume) nu sunt vitale, poate supravieţui și fără ele, era dificilă. Ci intervenţiile mămicilor binevoitoare care mă considerau o ȋncuiată, ca atare simţeau nevoia să ȋmi explice ele ce bine se va simţi copilul cu teancul de volume ȋn bibliotecă. Nu conta că ȋnvăţăturile nu erau chiar ce trebuie, nici că personajele derapau destul de grav și frecvent de la o atitudine potrivită unor copii/ preadolescenţi. Abia ȋn gimnaziu s-au văzut efectele ‘manualelor de supravieţuire’, cȃnd diriginta a trebuit să fie extrem de inventivă pentru a potoli bullying, a aplana conflicte iscate ȋn clasele primare și trecute elegant cu vederea atunci, dar perpetuate peste ani, a calma spirite.</span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Copiii au nevoie să fie temeinic ancoraţi ȋn istoria familiei. Și biblioteca ajută mult. Volumele părinţilor sau bunicilor, oricȃt de uzate, decolorate sau franjurate ar fi oferă pagini cu text și imagini. Volumele la modă sunt atȃt de ȋndrăgite de copii pentru că vin cu doar cȃteva rȃnduri pe pagină și desene mari, fără detalii, fără implicări emoţionale. Totul este redus la minimum. Evident că părinţii se pot mȃndri că ‘fiul/ fiica a terminat volumul ȋntr-o seară’. Dar uită că ȋn paginile acelea nu există acţiune, pasiune, experienţe, descrieri, punct culminant, deznodămȃnt, ci doar cȃteva fraze pe care copilul le reţine cu ușurinţă pentru a le pune ȋn aplicare a doua zi la școală. Ochiul nu mai este obligat să parcurgă o pagină de 30-40 rȃnduri, cu caractere obișnuite, ci doar cȃteva rȃnduri scrise răzleţ, cu fonturi mai mari decȃt normal. Lectura de plăcere influenţează puterea de concentrare mai tȃrziu, cȃnd va trebui să parcurgă lecţia din manual. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Poate că notele nu sunt importante și unii nu pun accent pe media copilului. Dar atitudinea, manierele, modul ȋn care relaţionează cu ceilalţi, DA. Și e imposibil să nu observăm gradul de agresivitate la care au ajuns copiii și adolescenţii de astăzi, lipsa sentimentelor de baza (empatie, milă etc), relaxarea cu care privesc scene de cruzime, lipsa unor deprinderi/ ȋndemȃnări banale.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Lecturile părinţilor stimulau emoţiile, prin imagini care reprezentau personaje complexe: un bunic blȃnd sau unul sever, un copil obraznic sau unul conștiincios, o mamă elegantă sau una obosită etc. Desenele din linii, care nu mai pun ȋn evidenţă trăsăturile feţei, ochilor, privirii reduc totul la o ȋnţelegere parţială a textului. Ne plȃngem de atitudinea tinerilor de astăzi, dar uităm că sunt rodul educaţiei noastre și lecturile, filmele, gadgeturile care i-au influenţat nu le-au picat din cer, ci au fost cumpărate și aprobate de adulţii responsabili cu educaţia și pregătirea lor pentru viaţă. Peste ani, cȃnd capacitatea fizică a părinţilor de azi se va fi redus, copiii vor fi cei care ȋi vor sprijini. Își vor fi acceptat statutul de adult oare? Sau se vor ghida ȋncă după teoriile din adolescenţă? Rămȃne de văzut.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Pȃnă atunci, este cazul să ne ȋngrijoreze declinul coeficientului intelectual și agresiunea la care este supus creierul uman. Poate a venit timpul să stăm puţin la sfat cu noi ȋnșine, cu copiii noștri sau cu specialiști reali. Să ȋncepem cu articolul Teresitei Dussart.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">‘</span></span><b><i><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #111111; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">Toate studiile psihometrice din lume arată o scădere a coeficientului intelectual începând din anul 2000</span></i></b><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #111111; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;">.</span><span style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: #111111; font-size: 12pt; letter-spacing: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">’</span></span></p><p> <a href="https://www.francesoir.fr/societe-sante/imbecilisation-de-l-espece-le-passage-l-idiocene">https://www.francesoir.fr/societe-sante/imbecilisation-de-l-espece-le-passage-l-idiocene</a></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></p></div>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-5798346380689135922020-10-17T02:43:00.013+03:002020-10-18T16:14:39.316+03:00La o luna de la inceperea scolii<p><br /><span style="font-size: 12pt;">O luna si doua zile. Atat a trecut din noul an scolar. Vremea frumoasa a lasat ferestrele deschise, asa ca aud zilnic cursurile unui elev de clasa a XI-a la un colegiu de top si ale unor scolari de clasa a III-a la o scoala foarte buna, din Capitala.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTEo1vAqVFSf48FoboxH_3XUz1s-T93K82UIEm1ezqC521I0ZAP3-ADwjwYE4LAORy0s1f_ILtREyY7bo85hRzNH3u9AnRYBmnF3HpM-r6Fv5qKEC4MsrxSwOutpBjeyob980_YppWuJCp/s760/blended-learning-to-maximize-training-effectiveness.jpg" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="315" data-original-width="760" height="196" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTEo1vAqVFSf48FoboxH_3XUz1s-T93K82UIEm1ezqC521I0ZAP3-ADwjwYE4LAORy0s1f_ILtREyY7bo85hRzNH3u9AnRYBmnF3HpM-r6Fv5qKEC4MsrxSwOutpBjeyob980_YppWuJCp/w364-h196/blended-learning-to-maximize-training-effectiveness.jpg" width="364" /></a></span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Studiaza doar online si, contrar opiniilor vehiculate pe Facebook, lucrurile merg bine. Cursurile s-au tinut chiar din prima zi, respectand orarul anuntat. Uneori apar mici probleme tehnice: conexiune instabila, ingheata ecranul sau microfonul etc., insa toata lumea pare sa stie ce are de facut, pentru ca in scurt timp cursul reincepe. Majoritatea profesorilor sunt relaxati, pastreaza legatura atat cu elevii prezenti in clasa, cat si cu cei din fata computerelor, dupa curs trimit materiale suplimentare (video sau audio) care completeaza lectia predata. Invatatoarea celor de clasa a III-a este tanara si schimbarea brusca din primavara a ambitionat-o sa gaseasca cele mai bune solutii pentru toti elevii sai. Se pare ca a gasit, pentru ca atat parintii, cat si elevii sunt multumiti. Probabil a avut si sprijinul conducerii scolii. Nu cunosc profesorii liceanului, insa o cunosc pe directoare si stiu cat a muncit din martie pentru ca liceul sa poata continua atat cursurile in clasa, cat si online: extrem de mult si, mai ales, cu pasiune! Rezultatele s-au vazut inca din prima zi de scoala.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Uneori, cand face parte din grupa care studiaza de acasa, aud si cursurile unui elev de la alt liceu, tot din Bucuresti. Pauzele sunt cam dese. Parintii mi-au spus ca unii profesori nu intra intotdeauna si online, lucreaza numai cu elevii din clasa, iar celorlalti le trimit doar poze cu lectia scrisa pe tabla.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Ce au castigat sau pierdut cei patru elevi? Primii trei au avut doar de castigat din studiul online: unul dintre scolarii de clasa a III-a a evoluat dintr-un copil timid, care nu indraznea sa ridice mana sau sa raspunda in clasa intr-un copil sigur pe el si responsabil nu doar in relatia cu scoala, ci si in alte situatii. Invatatoarea a remarcat inca din primavara schimbarea si l-a incurajat. Fratele sau a avut intotdeauna o personalitate puternica, asa ca trecerea in online nu a adus mari schimbari pentru el. Liceanul insa, nu doar ca a castigat timp (intrucat nu mai petrece 1-2 ore pe drum, in mijloace de transport aglomerate), insa are parte de mult mai mult decat lectia predata in clasa, intrucat majoritatea profesorilor completeaza cu materiale suplimentare, uneori lucrate chiar de ei (Word, PDF, PowerPoint, video). Cine isi inchipuie ca scoala online ii indeparteaza pe copii de prieteni se inseala. Adolescentii gasesc intotdeauna o cale sa tina legatura unii cu altii. Mai ales acum, avand access la tehnologie. Este obligatia parintilor insa sa completeze socializarea online si cu cea fata in fata si solutii se gasesc. <span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">De celalalt licean nu prea mai am ce spune, pentru ca nu asa ar trebui sa fie scoala online: cu pauze si dupa cheful profesorilor. Si, de fapt, tocmai aici voiam sa ajung. Inca din primavara s-au creat doua curente de opinii: cel al profesorilor pasionati si care isi iubesc elevii si cel de opozitie, al celor care nu vor sa se schimbe nimic. Timpul nu prea are rabdare cu noi si modifica totul: stiluri, atitudini, viziuni. Dar sta in firea omului sa nu accepte usor noul. Platformele de blended learning au aparut in Romania de vreo 10 ani, prin centre de limbi straine. Si atunci, unii profesori au simtit imediat potentialul acestui tip de predare, in timp ce altii au refuzat categoric (cei care nu aveau chef sa studieze ei insisi ceva nou, sa isi insuseasca abilitati noi, cei comozi). Putini s-au gandit la cursantii care ar fi dorit sa studieze dar fie nu aveau scoala potrivita in localitatea lor, fie distanta era un impediment, fie din diferite motive (personale, medicale etc) nu puteau frecventa orele din clasa. Eu insami am fost in aceasta situatie cu ani in urma cand fiica mea se pregatea pentru EN si, dupa moda vremii, cautam un profesor. Centrele de meditatii s-au oripilat de-a dreptul cand am intrebat daca ofera si cursuri online. Am descoperit o profesoara din alta localitate cu care a avut 3-4 intalniri online si care i-a lamurit niste neclaritati. Atat avusese nevoie. Nu avea niciun sens sa o inscriu la meditatii saptamanale, un an intreg, rapindu-i timp pretios.</span></div><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">In timpul verii, pentru ca nu a mai putut organiza tabara anuala de muzica, dirijoarea din SUA cu care lucreaza fiica mea de cativa ani a organizat doua sesiuni … online. Nu s-a speriat nici de diferenta de fus orar, nici de varsta, nici de numarul mare de coristi cu care trebuia sa lucreze in acelasi timp (50 -70), nici de faptul ca nu este cea mai tehnica persoana: a cerut ajutorul unor specialisti. Cele doua concerte au iesit grozav, desi ea se afla in California, iar copiii, in diferite localitati din Romania si Ucraina.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Din pacate, cel mai pagubos vector al scolii online a fost in toata aceasta perioada Facebook. Aici au luat nastere discutii generate de cei care ar vrea sa ramana la predarea din ceaslov, aici au fost lansate pentru emotionarea publicului povesti fara nicio baza reala (fetita batuta de colegi la scoala pentru ca poarta masca, baiat fara posibilitati financiare de care ar trebui, chipurile, sa se ocupe personal ministrul invatamantului, citate din discursuri ale ministrului, care nu se regasesc in nicio inregistrare video sau audio, etc). Profesorii care au facut posibile notele mari la EN si Bacalaureatul din vara anului 2020 nu prea fac parte din grupurile de ‘debate’ de pe FB. In timp ce pe site-ul social, unii se pierdeau in dispute inutile, critici si acuze nefondate, altii continuau chiar si in vremea pandemiei concursuri online de scriere creativa si traduceri, matematica sau arta, dezvoltau sau participau la proiecte online. Unele centre de limbi straine sau de meditatii si-au gasit cursanti in localitati indepartate din tara, care nu ar fi avut posibilitatea sa frecventeze altfel. De fapt, asta este ceea ce conteaza. Scoala online ar fi trebuit sa fie posibila de mult. Si, candva (cat mai curand), trebuie sa devina o optiune valabila. Scoala online sperie atat de mult pentru ca deschide poarta spre competitie intre profesori, intre centre/ scoli etc. Un profesor creativ, amuzant, care are rabdare va fi intotdeauna preferat unuia placid, arogant, repezit, care preda si ultima virgula din manual fara a starni interesul celor din banca.</span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Pe Facebook, multi profesori au gasit un loc potrivit pentru a-si revarsa nemultumirea vis-a-vis de minister. Aici si-au gasit spatiu criticile, glumele nepotrivite, informatiile false instigatoare si vocabularul relaxat. Nu e de mirare ca multi adolescenti nu se mai regasesc aici si au preferat sa se idnrepte spre alte zone mai putin beligerante. Platforma sociala a fost rar folosita pentru a observa ca:</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">-</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">anul acesta am avut parte, pentru prima oara de anonimizarea rezultatelor la examenele nationale. Am avut parte, in sfarsit, de maniera normala in care sunt publicate rezultatele la orice testare sau examen cu recunoastere internationala. Cu doar un an in urma, dna Andronescu ne informa ca nimeni in Romania nu poate face acest lucru pentru 150.000 nume. Evident ca nu se putea daca intrebase doar angajati decisi sa nu poata. Pacat ca nu ii trecuse prin cap sa intrebe elevi sau studenti la informatica; sigur ar fi gasit ajutor. Anul acesta s-a putut.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://www.edupedu.ro/ecaterina-andronescu-dupa-ce-parintii-au-cerut-publicarea-clasamentelor-de-la-admiterea-in-liceu-2018-parintii-or-solicita-dar-noi-avem-niste-reguli-pe-care-trebuie-sa-le-respectam/"><u><span class="15" style="color: blue; font-size: 12pt;">https://www.edupedu.ro/ecaterina-andronescu-dupa-ce-parintii-au-cerut-publicarea-clasamentelor-de-la-admiterea-in-liceu-2018-parintii-or-solicita-dar-noi-avem-niste-reguli-pe-care-trebuie-sa-le-respectam/</span></u></a><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">-</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;">Exact acum un an, cand Arena Nationala din Bucuresti era plina de copii pana in 14 ani, pe post de spectatori la meciul Romania - Norvegia, ministrul invatamantului, Liviu Marian Pop, se afla acolo. Cel putin asa anunta pe FB. Nu era ingrijorat nici de ora inaintata la care copiii se aflau pe un stadion, nici de atmosfera nepotrivita pentru varsta lor. In afara presei norvegiene care nu a laudat initiativa romanilor, nu imi amintesc de profesori care sa-l fi criticat cu naduf, pe FB. Parintii copiilor adusi din judete indepartate au povestit cat de prost a fost organizata deplasarea, dar subiectul nu reprezenta un punct de plecare pentru o cearta zdravana pe FB, asa incat a fost trecuta elegant cu vederea.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/Pop.Liviu.Marian/posts/2530529153680077"><u><span class="15" style="color: blue; font-size: 12pt;">https://www.facebook.com/Pop.Liviu.Marian/posts/2530529153680077</span></u></a><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://www.digi24.ro/stiri/sport/fotbal/presa-norvegiana-despre-meciul-de-pe-arena-nationala-sunete-asurzitoare-tribale-din-partea-copiilor-la-bucuresti-1201816"><u><span class="15" style="color: blue; font-size: 12pt;">https://www.digi24.ro/stiri/sport/fotbal/presa-norvegiana-despre-meciul-de-pe-arena-nationala-sunete-asurzitoare-tribale-din-partea-copiilor-la-bucuresti-1201816</span></u></a><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;">- </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;">Saptamana aceasta a fost nevoie de o vizita a ministrului pentru ca tabletele existente deja in depozit sa fie distribuite. Ca inspectorul general este bolnav pot intelege si accepta. Ceea ce nu pot accepta este ca niciunul dintre colegii ramasi la serviciu nu stia ca aceste tablete sunt blocate acolo, ca nimeni nu i-a preluat atributiile si, in general, ca nu exista spirit de echipa in societatea noastra. Presa a discutat subiectul, marii comentatori de pe FB nu s-au grabit insa sa renunte la criticile obisnuite.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://www.edupedu.ro/breaking-descindere-a-ministrului-educatiei-la-inspectoratul-bucuresti-intr-adevar-ne-pregatim-pentru-scenariul-rosu-daca-se-atinge-indicele-de-3-la-mie-astazi-incepem-distribuirea-tabletelor-in-s/?fbclid=IwAR1Akyl481KoEutjvXOTPQOluH"><u><span class="15" style="color: blue; font-size: 12pt;">https://www.edupedu.ro/breaking-descindere-a-ministrului-educatiei-la-inspectoratul-bucuresti-intr-adevar-ne-pregatim-pentru-scenariul-rosu-daca-se-atinge-indicele-de-3-la-mie-astazi-incepem-distribuirea-tabletelor-in-s/?fbclid=IwAR1Akyl481KoEutjvXOTPQOluH</span></u></a><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">-</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;">Drepturile la replica ale MEC trec aproape neobservate dupa ce publicatii mai mult sau mai putin obscure lanseaza pe orbita cate o veste-bomba.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://www.edu.ro/drept-la-replic%C4%83?fbclid=IwAR2K5sPYfJWANTpvGciXbDqDnT21oyTiA89F5qPKlDPpferAqd0mff8f9zA"><u><span class="15" style="color: blue; font-size: 12pt;">https://www.edu.ro/drept-la-replic%C4%83?fbclid=IwAR2K5sPYfJWANTpvGciXbDqDnT21oyTiA89F5qPKlDPpferAqd0mff8f9zA</span></u></a><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">-</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;">Este primul an cand nu se pierd zile de scoala cu prilejul alegerilor. La primul viscol care va bloca circulatia, scoala va putea continua online, fara sa se mai piarda ore sau sa se recupereze cursurile sambata (ceea ce era extrem de obositor pentru elevi).</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;">- Multi profesori se plang, pe buna dreptate, de conditiile tehnice insuficiente pentru scoala online: conexiune slaba, lipsa semnal in anumite zone. Nu inteleg de ce arunca cu pietre in minister. Semnalul este asigurat de un operator, ministrul invatamanului nu are un buton secret de la care sa ofere conexiune sau sa o intrerupa, dupa bunul plac. De aceleasi probleme tehnice ne lovim uneori si cand folosim internetul in scop personal. De ce nu este tras de urechi operatorul care nu ofera servicii la calitatea promisa in contract? De ce nu este luat la intrebari operatorul care se lauda ca asigura semnal oriunde? Evident ca este mult mai usor sa ne alegem o singura persoana ca tinta a propriilor frustrari. Dar ar fi mai intelept sa intelegem mecanismele care fac sa functioneze sau nu societatea si sa ne indreptam sesizarile intr-acolo. Si primarii s-ar fi putut implica, ca doar nu au fost la plaja toata vara: puteau merge prin scoli pentru a afla in mod direct problemele. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0pt;">- Ca si in sistemul de protectie sociala, invatamantul este capusat de organizatii/ asociatii/ firme care doar pretind ca ajuta, in realitate blocheaza orice initiativa care le deranjeaza confortul pe care si l-au construit deja. Presa trebuie sa observe si sa mediatizeze aceste aspecte, altfel vom avea o imagine stramba a realitatii. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Exemplele ar putea continua. In ultima jumatate de an s-au miscat suficiente lucruri in invatamant pentru a renunta la atitudinea la moda de a fi mereu nemultumiti. Parintii care critica scoala online sunt, in general, cei care obisnuiesc sa isi parcheze copiii la scoala, apoi la after-school. Acum, avandu-i acasa, descopera ca nu au lucrat suficient la educatia lor. Vecinii mei de clasa a III-a nu au nevoie de supravegherea adultilor, pentru ca au fost invatati de mici sa respecte reguli, sa urmeze o anume conduita etc. Am reusit sa urnim invatamantul din lancezeala care il cuprinsese in ultimii 30 ani. Evident ca nu este suficient. Evident ca mai este mult de lucrat la calitate. Evident ca sunt o multime de proiecte necesare care trebuie sa inceapa sa functioneze. Noi toti, profesori, parinti, elevi, trebuie sa avem o schimbare de optica si sa ne adaptam viitorului care a venit brusc peste noi si sa pastram o atitudine pozitiva pentru a construi. Barfind, criticand, refuzand nu vom reusi decat sa tinem si urmatoarele generatii intr-un trecut expirat deja. </span></p>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-13330649302851980532020-04-12T00:38:00.000+03:002020-04-12T14:35:21.242+03:00Catalogul electronic al anilor '60. Scoala digitalizata in R.P.R.<div class="MsoNormal">
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<i><span style="font-size: 12pt;">‘... Cand mi-am terminat inspectia, cursurile incepusera. M-am indreptat spre clasa mea. Dupa ce am facut apelul, apasand pe butonul catalogului electronic, care inregistra imaginea clasei din ziua aceea (fotografia a fost comparata automat cu modelul clasei intregi, si absentii, notati pe placa fixata in perete), am dat sa-mi incep lectia. Ma pregateam tocmai sa fac trecerea in revista a relatiilor de clasa de-a lungul veacurilor, folosind in acest scop cateva filme stereofonice si inregistrari obtinute prin sonorizarea scrierilor cuneiforme, a documentelor de tot felul, a discursurilor unor personaje istorice, in legatura cu aceasta problema…’ (Noi, elevii dintr-a XI-a, Alexandru Sen, Editura Tineretului, 1964)</span></i><i><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">‘Oglinda clasei’ este astazi un instrument folosit de multi diriginti si invatatori pentru asezarea elevilor in banci. Doar ca nu este prea nou. Fotografia mentionata in textul de mai sus este chiar aceasta oglinda a clasei. Inregistrarile pe care intentiona profesorul sa le foloseasca suna a scoala online. De necrezut pentru invatamantul puternic ideologizat al anilor ‘60.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Si totusi, fragmentul mentionat face parte dintr-un roman-jurnal, un fel de ‘Corigent la limba romana’ marcat de clisee cu tenta sovietica. Ma intreb daca romanul ar fi fost admis spre publicare si in regimul Ceausescu. Pana una-alta, autorul a preferat sa revina la ocupatia sa de baza, de psiholog clinician, la scurt timp dupa publicarea singurului sau roman, in 1964 (trebuie retinut insa ca textul a fost scris in perioada 1960-1961!!!). Nu stiu care a fost parcursul sau profesional dupa desfiintarea facultatilor de psihologie in anii ‘70, insa Alexandru Sen este fara indoiala un clarvazator in ceea ce priveste tehnicile didactice. Sa iti inchipui predarea, in acea perioada, bazata pe fisiere video si audio te propulsa in sfera lui Jules Verne. Sa propui managementul clasei bazat pe catalog electronic, intr-un timp cand nici macar zgomotoasele HC 85 nu aparusera, iti da dreptul sa fii macar consilier al ministrilor educatiei din perioada 1990-2020.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;">Probabil ca Alexandru Sen a fost mai implinit profesional ca psiholog, specializare care a stat cu siguranta la baza constructiei tipologiilor scolare din romanul sau (elevul-fluture, elevul-ciuperca, elevul-cocostarc, elevul-indigo etc). Nu pot insa sa nu ma intreb cum s-ar fi simtit in anii ce s-au scurs din 1990, observand ravna cu care a fost respins orice proiect de catalog electronic si stresul pe care ni l-a provocat scoala online in ultima luna. </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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The People’s House (the Palace of Parliament), Libertatii Blvd, Unirii Blvd are areas where real estate activity is permanently done to the maximum. The residents are both Romanian citizens and foreigners/ expats who choose this area for its ultracentral location, close to the metro and the heart of socialization in Bucharest: The Old City Center.</div>
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Few people know the hidden history of the bulldozers that redesigned part of the old Uranus neighborhood that covered the area between Izvor Park, the People's House and the Antim Monastery. While the rest of the capital city had suffered many alterations and transformations over time, the Uranus neighborhood's pace of development had been slow. Here lived a community that functioned perfectly in the bourgeois patriarchal charm of sloping streets, churches and relatively tall and elegant houses with a compact front, in the Mihai Voda - the Apostles streets. The latter was inhabited mainly by Jewish families. The neighborhood resembled the Jewish quarter behind the Unirea Shopping Centre, which was also demolished around the same time by order of Ceausescu. Today, behind the block of flats on Unirii Blvd, from the fountains on Unirea Blvd to Libertatii Blvd, there are still remnants of the old Antim-Uranus district. The communist strategy was to move and conceal the churches amongst the blocks. Thus, the entire Antim Monastery complex, built between 1713 and 1715, was hidden from the sight of those reaching from the boulevard. The old Antim street was maimed sadistically and received a graft of grotesque buildings that do not match it. The little street has survived, though even the Google search engine is unsure of the information provided: starting from the Eminescu High School and climbing towards the People's House, the street still retains some of the old buildings only on the left side. The right side is bordered by the new blocks of flats. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Antim Monastery seems unwavering, hidden behind the great, thick walls that have protected it against the destructive communist bulldozers. Only the "architectonic" eye of Grand Master Ceausescu did not allow it to stand in the original position and decided that it had to turn a little. So the 9,000 tones mastodon building (plus the books in the library weighing 1,000 tones) was transferred 28 m to the S-E to make room for the new Victory of Socialism Avenue. Mutilation took place on January 21, 1985, on a frosty day at 18 degrees below zero, and lasted for 6 hours. It still stands in front of the former Poenarescu School (documented in 1864). The school looks deplorable today. Only the exterior wall shows the passers-by about the past of the building. Nothing is mentioned about this building as accommodating the workshops where, during the communist period, the elite high school students from Gh. Lazar College were developing their skills in metalworking. A little farther is the Nuns' Hermitage. It was also moved in two steps: first 58 m, then 22 more meters. Not because there were technical problems, but because the dictator's "vision" changed from one field visit to another and each time new eye adjustments were made, at the scene. From the old monastic complex, there remained today only the church of the skeleton, mutilated by a modern architecture that does not fit it: insulating windows.</div>
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The streets that died under the gigantic People’s House have funny names today: Zebra, Minotaur, Echo, Meteor, Emigrant, Orpheus. Bucharest used to have the characteristics of a Byzantine city. Ceausescu destroyed one-sixth, the equivalent of Venice in square meters. The district was simply removed from the map of Bucharest between 1984 -1985. But the memory of it has been kept. If for three churches there was no rescue solution, being demolished (Alba-Postavari, Spirea Veche and Izvorul<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Tamaduirii), for others, there was a variant of hiding them among the communist blocks, such as: The Nuns’ Hermitage and Mihai Voda. The Nuns’ Hermitage is now interwoven between an old building, an ongoing site, and two communist blocks. Few people suspect their presence there. Only those who are fond of original photos might accidentally find it. Even current tenants do not know their history.</div>
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Some time ago I was ambitious enough to find an address: 7 Antim Street. I asked riverans for directions. They knew the street, but they had no idea that it had been truncated and the numbering of the buildings begins at 29. I tried my luck and asked some employees smoking outside the companies accommodated in the blocks built by Ceausescu: they did not know …</div>
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<span lang="IT-CH" style="mso-ansi-language: IT-CH;">Observ ca
exista o Strategie a Ministerului Invatamantului cu privire la reducerea
fenomenului de violenta in scoli. Grozav! Doar ca dateaza din 2007 si eu nu am
auzit sa fi fost discutata in scoli cu elevii si parintii. Oricum, ar cam
trebui revizuita. Violenta verbala elev-elev este 'considerata in general ca o
situatie tolerabila si obisnuita in orice scoala'. Exemplele sunt doar
certurile, conflictele, injuriile si tipetele. In cei 11 ani scursi de la
elaborarea acestei strategii, societatea a dezvoltat si hartuirea online, mult
mai perversa si greu de identificat decat simpla injuratura practicata pe
holurile scolii. Lipsesc niste termeni esentiali din acest document (pe care
profesorii oricum se cam feresc sa ii foloseasca): hartuire/ bullying, toleranta
zero pentru orice tip de hartuire. In cazul violentei profesorilor fata de
elevi este acceptat faptul ca este un fenoment mai putin recunoscut -
atitudinea ironica este dintotdeauna practicata cu succes de o multime de
profesori - nu am prea auzit de metode de descurajare. In ceea ce priveste
masurile recomandate se mentioneaza 'decongestionarea programului scolar al
elevilor'. Buna gluma! Nu s-a intamplat niciodata din 1990 incoace, desi s-a
vorbit tot timpul de acest lucru. Desi sunt scoli care reduc macar programul
petrecut la scoala prin scurtarea pauzelor, sunt si institutii care considera
vitale pauzele de 10 min si pauza 'mare' de 15 minute - intervale de timp
perfecte, de altfel, pentru aparitia bullying-ului. </span></div>
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<a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1EQfUepuHnjfcpe8DWGZIj-I7KMSVPlgn/view?usp=sharing">https://drive.google.com/file/d/1EQfUepuHnjfcpe8DWGZIj-I7KMSVPlgn/view?usp=sharing</a>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-82978024068174026312014-01-03T13:19:00.000+02:002014-01-03T23:38:28.068+02:00Happy birthday to me!<span style="font-family: inherit;">Azi e ziua mea!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">In sfarsit! Cat am asteptat-o! De ce? Pai ... ca sa imi pun iar o dorinta. Doar ca anul acesta voi schimba putin traditia - cica trebuie sa iti pui dorinta in gand, altfel nu se implineste. Pai nici anul trecut nu s-a implinit, nici acum doi ani, nici ... Asa ca dorinta mea va fi publica, poate asa imi iese. Si, pentru ca am voie doar o dorinta, o sa zic o singura data 'imi doresc'.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Deci ... imi doresc:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>1.</b></u><i> </i>sa nu mai aud propozitii care incep cu 'DECI', desi nu e momentul pentru nici o concluzie.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>2.</b></u> sa nu mai aud pe nimeni, si aici ma refer in special la regateni, folosind adverbul 'DECAT' in propozitii afirmative. E simplu, oameni buni, desi este sinonim cu 'doar, numai', 'DECAT' se foloseste <b>doar</b> in propozitii negative, conform DOOM (adicatelea Dictionarul Ortografic, Ortoepic Morfologic al Limbii Romane). </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>3.</b></u><i> </i>sa nu mai aud cetateni romani trecuti de varsta de 4 ani care se imbraca cu '<b>hainute, rochite, bluzite, fustite, pantofiori si sandalute</b>'. E cel putin penibila domnisoara de 1.70 m, fardata si tunata dupa ultima moda, anuntand ca a iesit la '<b>shopping</b>' sa isi cumpere '<b>hainute</b>'. Eu ma panichez mereu, gandindu-ma ca poate duduia e o 'fetita cu chibrituri' sarmana, care are bani doar de niste hainute amarate si are nevoie de o campanie umanitara. Apoi gandul imi zboara la un psiholog care ar putea sa ii explice, pe intelesul ei, cum e cu folosirea excesiva a diminutivelor, mai ales cand e vorba de propria persoana. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>4.</b></u> sa nu mai aud domnisoare, de orice varsta, vorbind din varful buzelor, ca asa stiu ele ca e 'trendy'. O fi, dar eu nu prea inteleg tot ce spun. Asa ca, va rog mult, incercati sa va reamintiti pronuntia corecta in limba romana. Observ - cu ingrijorare - ca tendinta asta incepe pe la 8 ani. In gasca de prietene ale fiicei mele sunt deja cateva care pronunta asa, imitand probabil surori mai mari. E drept, suna nitel greceste pronuntia asta, dar ... doar atat. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>5.</b></u> sa nu mai intalnesc copii de scoala primara care sunt mandri posesori ai celor mai scumpe telefoane, tablete etc de pe piata mondiala, dar dorintele mele nr <u><b>1</b></u> si <u><b>2</b></u> (vezi mai sus) le pun probleme. Da' un telefon ieftin, fara mofturi ce are? Le da urticarie? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>6.</b></u> sa ma pot uita la TV fara sa mai vad fetite de 4-6-8-10-12 ani rujate, fardate, imbracate in tinute sexy, care canta despre dor si dragoste si alte probleme existentiale din zona asta. Ca parinte de copil pasionat de scena, stiu ca ele (fetitele) isi doresc sa arate cat mai matur. Doar ca nu le sta bine. Iar in privinta repertoriului, avem compozitori pentru copii <b>EXCELENTI</b>. Aruncati o privire pe lista mea de prieteni de pe FB si o sa va convingeti. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>7.</b></u> sa pot circula cu mijloacele de transport in comun <b>fara</b> sa fiu obligata sa ascult intreaga conversatie telefonica a co-participantilor la calatorie. Pe unii i-o fi amuzand, pe mine nu! Cine nu poate vorbi pe un ton scazut, civilizat, poate ar fi bine sa consulte un ORL-ist. Din astia nu am in lista de prieteni FB.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>8.</b></u> sa nu mai vad la TV traducerea expresiei '<b>a couple of</b>' cu '<b>vreo doi/ doua</b>'. Dictionare nu pot sa ofer, dar se gasesc destule variante online. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>9. </b></u>sa se intample o minune si sa avem si noi un sistem de invatamant <b>normal</b> (observati ca nu mi-l doresc modern, doar normal ...). Aici simt nevoia sa dezvolt:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">- nu am inteles niciodata rostul temelor pentru acasa, nici macar cand eram eu eleva, in afara faptului ca imi limitau foarte mult timpul liber si orele pentru activitatile care imi placeau mie. Temele pentru acasa nu mi-au folosit niciodata la nimic, pentru ca fie intelegeam din clasa ce era de inteles, fie nu am inteles niciodata, ca in cazul chimiei si trigonometriei, care sunt niste enigme pentru mine si acum. As intelege rostul temelor pentru o nota mai mare, daca s-ar lucra pe nivele, sau in cazul celor cu risc de corijenta. Altfel, dupa ce copilul sta 4-5-6-7 ore la scoala, si o singura ora de teme mi se pare mult! Un minim de 5 ore/ zi de munca la un copil de 7 ani e mult, fratilor! De fapt si la 10 ani e mult sa lucreze 5 ore, in conditiile in care norma adultului e de 8 ore. Mai am inca multe din caietele din scoala primara: temele noastre erau scurte, la matematica nu aveam mai mult de 2 probleme! In schimb in caietele de clasa erau foarte multe exercitii. Si imi placeau mult zilele cand nu aveam NICIO tema! Si erau multe zilele de acest fel. Si iacata ca s-a ales ceva de noi. Si aveam timp sa fac si limbi straine, si sport, si pian, si sa ma joc MULT! In plus parca doar comunistii faceau in asa fel incat sa umple timpul cetatenilor cat mai mult cu putinta, pentru a nu le lasa timp SA GANDEASCA. Cam pe acolo s-a ajuns azi in scoala romaneasca. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">- nu o sa pricep niciodata rostul temelor la religie si sport. Se pare ca e 'trendy' ca profesorul de religie sa dea teme scrise, iar cel de sport sa dea nota 10 doar celui care stie si SA JOACE baschet, dar si SA EXPLICE in scris, intr-un referat CUM se joaca baschet. Asa e ca e complicat? Pai ma indoiesc ca generatia care invata rugaciuni din obligatie sau de teama notei (sau, si mai rau, de teama ironiei profesorului de religie) va fi cuprinsa de vreun fior religios pur. La sport nu comentez mai mult, ca am avut scutire.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">- din 1990 incoace aud expresia 'materia va fi revizuita'. Initial eu crezusem ca cei in drept vor scoate notiunile inutile. Ei, nu! Materia e in continuare stufoasa si din scoala primara pana la bacalaureat, elevii invata o multime de chestii care nu le vor folosi niciodata. Mi-am adorat profesoarele de romana si limbi straine, insa le sunt si acum recunoscatoare celor de chimie si matematica pentru ca <b>nu</b> m-au obligat sa invat o materie pe care capul meu de viitor filolog nu o putea digera. Rezultatul? Am amintiri frumoase din liceu, am fost incurajata sa imi dezvolt aptitudinile, iar de hibridizarea si halogenurile anorganice de la chimie sau de matricele, asimptotele si integralele de la matematica nu am avut nevoie absolut niciodata! Pai iar ajungem la opinia mea conform careia obligam elevii sa invete lucruri multe, chiar daca sunt inutile, doar pentru a le umple timpul si a nu ii lasa sa faca ceva util, creator. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u><b>10.</b></u> sa ajunga in ministerul invatamantului cineva curajos care sa reformeze cu adevarat sistemul actual. Sau macar sa imi spuna si mie la ce mi-ar fi folosit daca faceam nopti albe si invatam toate chestiile alea sofisticate la chimie si analiza matematica?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Gata, asta e dorinta mea! Va comunic la anu' ce/ daca s-a implinit. </span><br />
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<br />Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-54751886409848615252013-12-31T18:48:00.000+02:002013-12-31T18:48:27.337+02:00La multi ani!<img alt="2013-10-Happy-New-Year-2014-Free-Wallpaper" border="0" height="424" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAvpHmhdFc1IkM-ZLC5rt-EfAKi5eVGrA3MEH4cdwciLOXYuu1h6vEIAUdBszxp2CneUMvX7PTNzvP9ojJO4GUpVcb9tffeee24ugYpT9UFwPzT58M5rg8wYvTG_HRo3JmUpb9ZnZn2q0/s640/2013-10-Happy-New-Year-2014-Free-Wallpaper.jpg" title="2013-10-Happy-New-Year-2014-Free-Wallpaper" width="640" />Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-41947335511035534502013-07-23T13:55:00.000+03:002013-12-31T16:42:26.244+02:00In trecere prin SibiuLa sfarsitul lunii iunie am petrecut cateva zile in Sibiu. <br />
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Nu am avut timp de vizitat muzee, locuri, atractii turistice, insa am mancat la un restaurant nou, pe str Dealului. La Geodel nu se servesc retete sofisticate, meniul este destul de limitat, insa salata lor de ardei iuti este grozava!<br />
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Intr-o zi am vazut un grup de copii (de la o gradinita sau asistati social) care luau pranzul acolo. Deci preturile sunt accesibile tuturor. Daca un meniu simplu este suficient si nici bani prea multi nu aveti, atunci locatia din str. Dealului nr 6 poate fi interesanta.Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-13492259861824816722013-07-16T09:33:00.001+03:002013-12-31T16:39:13.302+02:00Am intalnit doi copii ... disciplinati! Am inceput vacanta de vara cu un proiect deosebit: <a href="http://hermannstadtfest.blogspot.ro/p/acasa.html" target="_blank"><b>Festivalul de muzica HermannstadtFest (Sibiu)</b></a>. Nu am facut parte din juriu, fiica mea nu a participat la concurs. Implicarea mea a fost doar pe latura organizatorica. Daca primele doua zile au fost pline de emotii pentru concurenti, ziua a treia a fost o incercare de forta pentru mine: a trebuit sa fac fata unor adevarate atacuri din partea celor care abia asteptau sa urce pe scena pentru a primi premiul.<br />
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Trebuie sa incep cu laudele: toti concurentii au fost minunati pe scena! Insa ... <i>trebuia sa urmeze si un 'insa', nu?</i> ... la finalul celei de a treia zi, am simtit nevoia sa pastrez o amintire cu cei 2 copii DISCIPLINATI din concurs: <u><i><b>Dreliciuc Maria Miruna</b></i></u> si <u><i><b><a href="https://www.facebook.com/dan.antonio.94?fref=ts" target="_blank">Dan Antonio</a></b></i> </u>din Drobeta Turnu Severin. Sa nu se inteleaga gresit: nimeni nu a incalcat regulile concursului. Cand spun 'disciplinati', ma refer la atitudinea Mirunei si a lui Antonio in spatele scenei, acolo unde emotiile ne coplesesc, iar lumina reflectoarelor nu ajunge. Nu-i nimic: a ajuns aparatul foto!<br />
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Suntem inca in vacanta si probabil ca numai de disciplina nu va arde. Totusi, apar asemenea situatii, cum este un festival, in care disciplina este nu doar obligatorie, dar parca aduce si o nota de eleganta. Putini stiu ce inseamna organizarea unui festival: totul incepe cu ... disciplina. Dar tot pe disciplina ar trebui sa se bazeze si pregatirea concurentilor. Mi-e greu sa cred cei care au fost aplaudati si premiati, nu practica disciplina in pregatirea lor curenta.<br />
<i><b> </b></i><u><i><b>Maria Miruna Dreliciuc</b></i></u> era delicioasa: sub greutatea costumului popular care ii facea si mai dificila asteptarea, era necajita doar de insistentele unor adulti care o vedeau 'prea cuminte' si o sfatuiau sa fie mai indrazneata. <a href="https://www.facebook.com/dan.antonio.94?fref=ts" target="_blank"><u><i><b>Antonio Dan</b></i></u></a> mi-a cerut informatii privind programul Galei, apoi si-a asteptat randul fara sa chiuie, sa topaie sau sa dea buzna pe scena din cand in cand, doar asa ... ca sa vada daca nu cumva a fost strigat (?!). Si nici macar nu i-am vazut parintii in preajma. Asa ca: felicitari, <i><b>Miruna</b></i> si <a href="https://www.facebook.com/dan.antonio.94?fref=ts" target="_blank"><i><b>Antonio</b></i></a>! Pe langa premiile oferite de juriul festivalului, voi ati obtinut si titlul de 'cei 2 copii disciplinati' din concurs! Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-29718139739490083412012-06-06T08:56:00.001+03:002013-12-31T16:36:11.475+02:00Retrospectiva 1 Iunie la Adapostul de Cai Tei TobocZiua Copilului a fost o zi cu adevarat speciala anul acesta. <a href="http://www.cai-abandonati.ro/" target="_blank">Adapostul de cai Tei Toboc</a><br />
<a name='more'></a><a href="http://www.cai-abandonati.ro/" target="_blank"> </a>a oferit copiilor un spectacol ecvestru minunat, sub bagheta <a href="http://www.circulglobus.ro/" target="_blank">maestrului emerit al circului</a>, <a href="http://www.circulglobus.ro/" target="_blank">Filimon Iordache</a>: demonstratie de dresaj cu cai in libertate, teatru ecvestru, sarituri peste obstacole, dzhigit (acrobatie calare), o demonstratie a echipei de scrima juniori condusi de campioana olimpica si mondiala la floreta, Roxana Barladeanu. Spectacolul s-a incheiat cu un concert rock sustinut de Lulu Cerveni si trupa Rock Incorporation.<br />
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<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="344" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/LpwsYjKTlp0?fs=1" width="459"></iframe>Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-85763644582807667952012-05-31T11:35:00.000+03:002013-12-31T16:34:01.105+02:001 IUNIE ... cu dragosteAzi e destul de innorat, dar maine este totusi 1 IUNIE. Daca ne luam dupa vreme ... parca nu ne-am apropia de vara. Dar nu ne ghidam dupa vreme, ci dupa nerabdarea cu care asteapta copiii ziua lor. Asa ca ... sa fie clar: maine este 1 IUNIE! Indiferent de vreme, trebuie sa schimbam registrul: bucuria trebuie sa fie cuvantul de ordine.<br />
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Va propun ceva - de fapt este o invitatie: <a href="http://www.cai-abandonati.ro/" target="_blank">Adapostul de cai Tei Toboc</a> organizeaza maine, 1 iunie, incepand cu ora 11 un <a href="https://www.facebook.com/events/321326594612594/?ref=notif&notif_t=plan_user_joined" target="_blank">spectacol ecvestru dedicat Zilei Copilului</a>: demonstratii de scrima, dresaj de cai, sarituri peste obstacole, acrobatie calare, teatru ecvestru, plimbari cu calul sau trasurica. Spectacolul se va incheia cu un concert rock sustinut de Lulu Cerveni si trupa Rock Incorporation.<br />
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Papusile si masinutele sunt cadouri grozave, dar oferite atat de des incat s-au banalizat in ochii copiilor. O zi petrecuta in aer liber, acasa la caii din adapostul Tei Toboc este cu siguranta mult mai placuta si utila. Copiii vor fi interesati si de povestile calutilor din adapost:<a href="http://www.cai-abandonati.ro/" target="_blank"> http://www.cai-abandonati.ro/</a> si vor fi curiosi sa afle povestile Doinitei, a lui Mercedes, a lui Decebal si Traian sau a Natashei.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnPAlQbqSDnKfwg7rFufBLkcjauOuzpHBLn4dLvi23J8SnK3u5_3g624Fge5RvdGwRkeiFyn2kF_5IZhNucTaEL809qqsWk7TuhLyXrTL6V8RQpJ7lcmezktcSA32hUulKcuMlaFeiLTgv/s1600/INVITATIE.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="186" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnPAlQbqSDnKfwg7rFufBLkcjauOuzpHBLn4dLvi23J8SnK3u5_3g624Fge5RvdGwRkeiFyn2kF_5IZhNucTaEL809qqsWk7TuhLyXrTL6V8RQpJ7lcmezktcSA32hUulKcuMlaFeiLTgv/s400/INVITATIE.jpg" width="400" /></a>Caii isi asteapta deja cu nerabdare spectatorii si vor darui copiilor maine un tip de dragoste cu care putini dintre micutii nostri mai sunt obisnuiti: micii cetateni 100% urbani au indemanarea necesara manevrarii telefonului mobil sau computerului, PSP-ului sau consolei, dar nu mai au delicatetea de a mangaia. Ochii multora dintre copii sunt obisnuiti cu imaginile (prea) viu colorate, care se desfasoara cu violenta pe ecran, dar nu si cu maiestuozitatea si gratia cailor. Haideti, asadar, sa le oferim de ziua lor: dragoste, eleganta, caldura.<br />
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Ne vedem la adapostul de cai!<br />
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<br />Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-5487377901660073942012-05-27T22:31:00.000+03:002013-12-31T16:10:59.001+02:00La BastiliaAsa spune fiica mea: '<i>Am fost ieri la Bastilia. La un atelier pentru copii.'. </i>Si asa este: am descoperit un loc nou in Bucuresti, unde se organizeaza evenimente educative pentru copii. Este vorba de <a href="http://www.librariumgrup.ro/bastilia/libraria-bastilia" target="_blank">Libraria Bastilia</a> din Piata Romana. Ne-am bucurat de un spatiu perfect pentru asemenea intalniri, de o atmosfera superba si de un program excelent gandit pentru cei mici: 'Pustii citesc marele Nate la <a href="http://www.librariumgrup.ro/bastilia/libraria-bastilia" target="_blank">Libraria Bastilia</a>'. <br />
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Am descoperit acest loc datorita publicitatii negative. Vedeti ce bine functioneaza cateodata acest tip de publicitate? Cu ceva timp in urma am dat peste un blog al carei autoare era extrem de scandalizata ca intentia ei de a petrece vreo 3 (TREI) ore la cafeneaua din cadrul <a href="http://www.librariumgrup.ro/bastilia/libraria-bastilia" target="_blank">Librariei Bastilia</a>, alaturi de cateva prietene, vreo 6 (SASE) si copilasii aferenti nu gasise ecou favorabil la personalul <a href="http://www.librariumgrup.ro/bastilia/libraria-bastilia" target="_blank">Bastiliei</a>. M-a facut curioasa, am citit cu atentie toate postarile si am aflat ca un grup de mamici (vreo sase) au planificat o intalnire cu copilasii de 2-3 ani (tot vreo sase) in aceasta cafenea. Au petrecut 3 ore de neuitat, atat pentru ele, cat si pentru ceilalti consumatori aflati in cafenea la acea ora si pentru personal si ...surpriza: la plecare au fost rugate frumos sa mai revina, dar fara copii. Si ... de ce? Doar pentru ca pustii, au strabatut cafeneaua in lung si in lat, timp de 3 ore, 'cu pasii lor mai mult sau mai putin siguri'? Pentru ca ceilalti consumatori nu au gustat atitudinea relaxata a mamicilor care au probat de zor haine in cafenea si s-au jucat pe jos, cu copiii?<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFQcOYPE6eMduVctyd9y3U6ZMTtrJwoFbCMOQEmYzNWh_eVxvq_7hx3BK61iUEk9oNe7IjuRUQpNn-0sFlMKlYWrNGzAMJ3mInjoVU4KKYOdiQG0uOCMoQd5gjjREa__ZtgApIAz28A9D9/s1600/Picture+207.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFQcOYPE6eMduVctyd9y3U6ZMTtrJwoFbCMOQEmYzNWh_eVxvq_7hx3BK61iUEk9oNe7IjuRUQpNn-0sFlMKlYWrNGzAMJ3mInjoVU4KKYOdiQG0uOCMoQd5gjjREa__ZtgApIAz28A9D9/s320/Picture+207.jpg" width="240" /></a>Hopa! mi-am zis. Suna bine! Un spatiu unde adultii sunt rugati frumos sa nu uite de normele de conduita necesare in societate (nici macar de dragul copiilor), dar unde exista indrazneala de a discuta cu copiii (in cadrul unor ateliere organizate) teme destul de delicate, gen: sunt exemple de urmat personajele din 'Jurnalul unui pusti', 'Insemnarile unei pustoaice', 'Marele Nate'?' ... ei bine, un asemenea loc este pe placul meu. Asa ca mi-am luat si eu copilul din dotare, care a depasit insa varsta prescolara si gusta o escapada la o cafenea de acest gen si ne-am infiintat la atelier.<br />
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Nu era chiar inghesuiala, semn ca acest gen de ateliere nu este inca digerat usor de parinti, dar au venit totusi mai multi copii decat se asteptau organizatorii. Semn bun: deci sperante exista! Atelierul a durat mai putin de 3 ore - cat au tinut mamicile respective bietii copilasi de 3 ani in cafenea - si pustii s-au apropiat imediat de cele doua actrite: au discutat despre Marele Nate, au cazut de acord ca avem mare nevoie sa radem, dar nu e indicat sa incercam chiar tot ce citim in acele jurnale, au invatat ce este un haiku, apoi s-au transformat in mici bucatari. Sub supravegherea Danielei Miscov si a Magdei Condurache copiii au pregatit cu multa inspiratie niste sandwich-uri delicioase cu branza. Si pentru ca ziua sa fie cu adevarat perfecta, am aflat ca acest atelier de lectura, teatru si gatit a fost asociat cu <a href="http://foodrevolutionday.com/" target="_blank">Food Revolution Day</a>, o sarbatoare a mancatului sanatos, initiata de celebrul <a href="http://www.jamieoliver.com/" target="_blank">Jamie Oliver</a>.<br />
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Concluzia? Asteptam cu nerabdare (fiica mea) si interes (eu) urmatorul atelier marca <a href="http://www.librariumgrup.ro/bastilia/libraria-bastilia" target="_blank">Bastilia</a>: <a href="http://www.librariumgrup.ro/bastilia/libraria-bastilia" target="_blank">Copiii, librari pentru o zi</a>.Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-21438983701420047392012-04-29T23:20:00.001+03:002013-07-11T10:29:16.355+03:00Marea Bisnitareala de la Marele Schimb<a href="http://www.alinasorescu.ro/" target="_blank"> </a>A trecut <a href="http://www.mega-image.ro/" style="color: #ea9999;" target="_blank">Marele Schimb de Carti 'Comorile Oceanelor'</a>. Colectia a inceput cu entuziasm, ca si cea de anul trecut. Ca doar toti copiii sunt dornici sa fie colectionari si, mai ales, sa fie posesorii produselor mediatizate. Colectia este chiar utila: decat sa stranga tot felul de figurine uracioase, care mai degraba iti dau cosmaruri noaptea decat dragalasenie ziua, mai bine isi canalizeaza energia spre un album educativ.<br />
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Ce te faci insa cand isi baga adultii nasul? Ei ... atunci ... lasam la o parte latura educativa si apelam la ce ne pricepem mai bine: la bisnita. Colectia cuprinde cateva carti aurii (sa nu intelegeti ca sunt cu adevarat aurite si ar avea o valoare impresionanta), de negasit in acest moment pe piata. Sigur ca au fost si cativa parinti care au dat pur si simplu cartile de care nu mai aveau nevoie, chiar si carti aurii. Insa un numar destul de mare pare blocat de cativa baieti 'descurcareti' care - va vine sa credeti???!!! - le ofera CONTRA COST. Am incercat sa iau legatura cu cateva persoane care aveau dubluri la aceste mult-cautate carti aurii si care erau inscrise pe site-ul <a href="http://www.mega-image.ro/" style="color: #ea9999;" target="_blank">Mega Image</a>. Nu mica mi-a fost mirarea cand am fost intrebata daca sunt dispusa sa platesc pentru aceste carti. Ma gandesc ca aceste persoane 'cu initiativa' or fi proaspat absolventi de psihologie, fini cunoscatori ai copilului. Ca atare, s-au gandit ca parintii nu vor rezista dorintei micutilor de a-si completa albumul si vor face orice eforturi, chiar si financiare. Probabil ca multi chiar au facut acest lucru. Am retinut replica unui tanar din parc, care isi oferea dublurile aurii la <a href="http://www.mega-image.ro/" style="color: #ea9999;" target="_blank">Marele Schimb de Carti</a>, rostind in surdina pretul: 'Tot la mine veti apela pana la urma, ca oricum nimeni nu va da gratis cartile acelea.'<br />
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Evenimentul a fost destul de placut: locatie centrala, muzica, <a href="http://www.alinasorescu.ro/" style="color: #ea9999;" target="_blank">Alina Sorescu</a> fermecatoare ca de obicei, prilej de socializare pentru cei mici. Gustul la final insa: amar. Suntem in stare sa bisnitarim pana si jocurile copiilor! Nu stiu daca reprezentantii <a href="http://www.mega-image.ro/" style="color: #ea9999;" target="_blank">Mega Image</a> stiu deja de aceasta situatie, dar urmatoarea colectie eu as pregati-o cu mai multa atentie si as introduce elemente de siguranta, mai ceva ca la bancnotele Bancii Nationale a Romaniei. Pana atunci insa, as adauga ca nu sunt de vina numai cei care au avut ideea de a 'face un ban cinstit', ci si cei care au platit. Daca ar fi stiut ca nimeni nu va da un ban pe 'oferta' lor aurita, baietii descurcareti nu s-ar mai fi deranjat sa le colectioneze. <br />
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Weekend-ul trecut a incheiat o saptamana culturala, extrem de aglomerata pentru copiii si adolescentii devoratori de filme bune. Festivalul de Film pentru Copii si Adolescenti KINOdiseea, aflat la a III-a editie, a adus bucurestenilor o multime de filme excelente si ateliere deosebite.<br />
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Noul Cinematograf al Regizorului Roman (din cadrul Muzeului Taranului Roman), Grand Cinema Digiplex (Baneasa Shopping City) si Cinema Eforie au gazduit copiii insotiti de parinti sau profesori.<br />
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Filmele au fost inspirat selectionate, propunand teme profunde: viata complicata a emigrantului-copil sau a adolescentului marcat de conditia de hermafrodit, capacitatea copilului de a depasi bariera lingvistica etc.<br />
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Atelierul de FOTOGRAFIE i-a invatat cum sa incadreze corect poza, sa tina cont de lumina, distanta, material, au folosit chiar si aparate cu film, ceea ce a fost foarte interesant pentru copiii erei digitale. Atelierul de ACTORIE le-a oferit ocazia sa invete de la Clara Voda cum sa se joace 'de-adevaratelea'. Atelierul de MONTAJ i-a introdus in tainele profesionistilor in imagine si sunet si au fost pe rand regizori, sunetisti sau actori. 'WORKSHOP in FAMILIE' coordonat de LEXIS Scoli de Limbi Straine a fost cel mai aglomerat atelier, propunand copiilor si parintilor sa joace pe rand rolul de parteneri si de consultanti in procesul invatarii si descoperirii reciproce. Copiii au participat si la atelierele de ANIMATIE, DANS, SCENOGRAFIE, COSTUME si ORIGAMI.<br />
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Festivalul a prezentat mai mult decat scurt si lung-metraje. A oferit o mica scoala de cinematografie. Copiii-cineasti - cum i-a numit ambasadorul Irlandei la Bucuresti, John Morahan - au teme de gandire pana la urmatoarea editie KINOdiseea.Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-91142278866344788032011-10-31T21:38:00.002+02:002013-07-11T10:30:39.951+03:00KINOdiseea - la a 3-a editie!!!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Mai este doar o zi pana ce <b>Festivalul KINOdiseea</b> isi va redeschide portile pentru cea de-a III-a editie. Timp de aproape o saptamana, Bucurestiul devine capitala cinematografiei pentru copii si adolescenti.<br />
In septembrie 2009, <b>KINOdiseea</b> a fost primul eveniment de gen organizat pentru copii dupa 1989. Bucurestiul se alatura astfel marilor metropole ale lumii (New York, Chicago, Londra) ce gazduiesc festivaluri de film pentru copii si adolescenti.<br />
Dupa succesul primei editii, <b>KINOdiseea</b> devine membru <b>ECFA</b> (<b>Asociatia Europeana a Filmului pentru Copii</b>) si realizeaza, de asemenea, parteneriate cu unele dintre cele mai importante festivaluri de film pentru copii din Europa (<b>Zlin International Youth Film</b> - Cehia, <b>Kristiansand Film Festival </b>- Norvegia si <b>Ale Kino! Film Festival </b>- Polonia).<br />
'<i><b>Decolarea</b></i>', in regia lui Ian Power, un film irlandez cu o poveste despre prietenie si curaj, va deschide <b>Festivalul de Film pentru copii KINOdiseea</b>, marti, 1 noiembrie, ora 19, la Grand Cinema Digiplex din Baneasa. <br />
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Intre 1-6 noiembrie publicul bucurestean va avea ocazia sa urmareasca pe marele ecran filme precum '<i><b>Kooky</b></i>' (regia Jan Sverak, 2010), care a avut incasari de1,200,000 EUR doar in Cehia, tara de origine, '<i><b>Viata de pisica</b></i>' (regia Jean-Loup Felicioli, Alain Gagnol, 2010) - cel mai bun film francez pentru copii al anului 2010, nominalizat la Premiile Cesar si la Oscarurile Europene pentru cea mai buna animatie a anului 2010, '<i><b>Crocodilii se intorc'</b></i> (regia Christian Ditter) etc. Festivalul cuprinde anul acesta si o sectiune speciala dedicata filmului polonez pentru copii.<br />
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Filmele din cadrului <b>Festivalului KINOdiseea</b> vor rula intre 1-6 noiembrie la Grand Cinema Digiplex din Baneasa Shopping City, la Cinema Eforie si la Noul Cinematograf al Regizorului Roman (Muzeul National al Taranului Roman). Programul complet al Festivalului poate fi descarcat aici: <a href="http://www.kinodiseea.ro/img/program.pdf">http://www.kinodiseea.ro/img/program.pdf</a><br />
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Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0Bucharest, România44.430481 26.07903468749998442.107378 21.320567687499985 46.753584000000004 30.837501687499984tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-86473771665691379872011-09-02T11:10:00.002+03:002013-07-11T10:31:25.316+03:00Festival international de film pentru copii si adolescenti: Kinodiseea, Bucuresti, 1-6 nov<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEil664_PdllXawYP6N0vB-SVuu08v0sVgPSFv4uB_Dla_y3-EARLeotGXAkApguVFonei0eCZZiMAL_uHEnJcu6CdoBNxt05H0syQoODON4EMPrpS38etxUaR_gdIFWJYDp5wAWwaSrqsZt/s1600/cinema+gloria+kinodiseea.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEil664_PdllXawYP6N0vB-SVuu08v0sVgPSFv4uB_Dla_y3-EARLeotGXAkApguVFonei0eCZZiMAL_uHEnJcu6CdoBNxt05H0syQoODON4EMPrpS38etxUaR_gdIFWJYDp5wAWwaSrqsZt/s200/cinema+gloria+kinodiseea.jpg" width="200" /></a>A inceput numaratoarea inversa. Mai sunt doar cateva zile pana incepe scoala. Unii sunt nerabdatori sa isi reintalneasca profesorii si colegii. Altii regreta deja zilele de vacanta cu joaca, parc, excursii.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgc5HvGWoYZmIoWomdPL3xUZuZeGY8rrfwenJHaI3b0xcyGVE0Xz7Je5KiGUBnKVoW64yeHwYOjwmrYYNUInZJWQ3jwy-8DgBkkQloH3XAnzuFKgd4GgRTNibqe_DnR7w-_IBpd9f4u4u1Q/s1600/poza+kinodiseea+4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgc5HvGWoYZmIoWomdPL3xUZuZeGY8rrfwenJHaI3b0xcyGVE0Xz7Je5KiGUBnKVoW64yeHwYOjwmrYYNUInZJWQ3jwy-8DgBkkQloH3XAnzuFKgd4GgRTNibqe_DnR7w-_IBpd9f4u4u1Q/s200/poza+kinodiseea+4.jpg" width="150" /></a>Vesti bune: reinceperea scolii nu inseamna doar lectii, teme si note. Fiti pregatiti pentru o multitudine de evenimente: Ziua Europeana a Limbilor, Festivalul Kinodiseea, Saptamana altfel etc. Nu stiti prea multe despre Ziua Europeana a Limbilor? Nu-i nimic: voi reveni curand cu un material special. Aveti insa vocatie cosmopolitana? Atunci Festivalul Kinodiseea nu trebuie sa lipseasca din agenda.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjx0rneBkcPoBoz0EOn0NLDb5oHTXrepU5UghmkNWgSslmnXmLW9o8zFte9bQMUnf3FWewoQqDFuacXs1IOYhGQpjiHCH8c7XpOzrL0A85SZfYeYvlt8FCuzSCbQjRK_B-cQht7zbS-Plcc/s1600/poza+kinodiseea+3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjx0rneBkcPoBoz0EOn0NLDb5oHTXrepU5UghmkNWgSslmnXmLW9o8zFte9bQMUnf3FWewoQqDFuacXs1IOYhGQpjiHCH8c7XpOzrL0A85SZfYeYvlt8FCuzSCbQjRK_B-cQht7zbS-Plcc/s200/poza+kinodiseea+3.jpg" width="200" /></a>KinOdiseea este <b>singurul festival international de film din Romania</b> dedicat copiilor si adolescentilor dar care se adreseaza si familiior aflate in cautare de evenimente culturale de calitate, cuprinzand acest mic univers familial in cele sapte zile ale festivalului. In septembrie 2009, Kinodiseea a fost primul eveniment de gen organizat pentru copii dupa 1989. Bucurestiul se alatura marilor metropole ale lumii ( New York, Chicago, Londra) ce gazduiesc festivaluri de film pentru copii si adolesenti. Dupa succesul primei editii, Kinodiseea a devenit <b>membru ECFA</b> ( Asociatia Europeana a Filmului pentru Copii) si a realizat parteneriate cu unele dintre cele mai importante festivaluri de film pentru copii din Europa ( <b>Zlin International Youth Film Festival - Cehia, Kristiansand Film Festival - Norvegia si Ale Kino! Film Festival – Polonia</b>).<br />
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Mai mult detalii gasiti pe <a href="http://www.kinodiseea.ro/" style="color: #c27ba0;">www.kinodiseea.ro</a>. Eu as mai adauga doar programul din 2010 al festivalului, pentru a va face o idee despre ce va va astepta anul acesta.<br />
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<span lang="RO">Cinema Gloria - 9:00 – 11:</span>00 Ziua filmului romanesc; 11:00-12:30 Ziua filmului romanesc</div>
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14:00-16:00 Ziua filmului romanesc; 19:00-20:30 Eu cand vreau sa fluier, fluier</div>
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Cinema Elvira Popescu - 9:30-11:00 Micul Nicolas; 19:00-20:30 Cosmonauta</div>
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<span lang="RO">Cinema Gloria - 9:00 – 11:</span>00 Balonul rosu/Coama alba; 11:00-12:30 Carlitos are sansa vietii</div>
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14:00-16:00 Cosmonauta; 19:00-20:30 Bran Nue Dae</div>
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Cinema Elvira Popescu - 9:30-11:00 Yuki si Nina; 19:00-20:30 Soul Boy</div>
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Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8853276119967483723.post-73431206419443490842011-08-21T14:24:00.000+03:002013-07-11T10:32:24.857+03:00La Opera de ... sambata seara<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFyb6eNVBS1fYhupE4z767BQOjhNGsqN9PeNJHyQrPo3uhmp2tdXbGEZUuSmOTNxFDvFM-JzsoWlMnVSsrCNXBFOQfU4Kas3LIEBY81SBawyzFLwcmbkE7iRTc1K5HT-u-4c2E6m9UkkUM/s1600/promenada2011.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFyb6eNVBS1fYhupE4z767BQOjhNGsqN9PeNJHyQrPo3uhmp2tdXbGEZUuSmOTNxFDvFM-JzsoWlMnVSsrCNXBFOQfU4Kas3LIEBY81SBawyzFLwcmbkE7iRTc1K5HT-u-4c2E6m9UkkUM/s400/promenada2011.jpg" width="400" /></a>Ieri seara am avut senzatia ca am intalnit toata populatia Bucurestiului la Promenada Operei. Eveniment cu traditie deja, spectacolul de sambata seara a scos din casa copii si adulti, indragostiti sau nu de opera. Opera Nationala Bucuresti ne-a intampinat cu parcul din fata cladirii transformat intr-o sala de spectacole in aer liber. Spatiul a inceput sa se umple cu vreo 2 ore inainte de inceperea spectacolului, mai intai timid, apoi cu indrazneala, ba chiar cu tupeu din loc in loc.<br />
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Cu 15 minute inainte de orele 21.00 locurile erau ocupate in totalitate, iar iarba de pe aleile laterale servea drept covor comod pentru cei care nu mai prinsesera loc pe scaune, dar isi doreau totusi sa asculte spectacolul. Cele 2 ecrane uriase care au incadrat scena au permis vizionarea spectacolului si de catre cei aflati in puncte mai indepartate.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ8L2A96QonSgvoQ5tVHHxXVlDy8U0a8gV7tUp0eEiqthBPh4856lzBprOv2_Sb9Wg1qoPAKc-bAvnVWAIiINIcqZg_ZMPrBIh1v38yOjsxJcucriezWK1b1jpbQHH1UOXPhLKDStSNzuG/s1600/Picture+002.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZ8L2A96QonSgvoQ5tVHHxXVlDy8U0a8gV7tUp0eEiqthBPh4856lzBprOv2_Sb9Wg1qoPAKc-bAvnVWAIiINIcqZg_ZMPrBIh1v38yOjsxJcucriezWK1b1jpbQHH1UOXPhLKDStSNzuG/s200/Picture+002.jpg" width="150" /></a> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBlIYg13A0tkAceZhQFDPNEPha2yFM26vguN6xtsHfZHH5RV1ic1yC1yNzBBkljxC61rDdU9onG7jHHPSnmzwkdxtIoeKbiTRBaMucsRsUFFo4ac4aYJgOn9h7NahPpXt0umgGOG5YWCJb/s1600/Picture+004.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjBlIYg13A0tkAceZhQFDPNEPha2yFM26vguN6xtsHfZHH5RV1ic1yC1yNzBBkljxC61rDdU9onG7jHHPSnmzwkdxtIoeKbiTRBaMucsRsUFFo4ac4aYJgOn9h7NahPpXt0umgGOG5YWCJb/s200/Picture+004.jpg" width="200" /></a>Aflate in imediata apropiere a scenei nu am avut imaginea totala a multimii care iesise la promenada sambata seara. Abia la plecare am realizat ca spectatorii nu fusesera doar pe platoul din fata Operei, ci si pe trotuar, in parcul de la Drept, pe malul Dambovitei, ba chiar si vis-a-vis, in fata bisericii Elefterie sau in parcul Eroilor. Cred ca jandarmii prezenti nu se asteptasera la o asemenea afluenta. Nici eu, dar mi-a placut. Iar atmosfera intre Opera si Unirea era chiar memorabila: oameni de diferite varste, eleganti, relaxati, care faceau o conversatie pe alte teme decat celebrele barfe mondene. Cristina Stefanescuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04649614730742416121noreply@blogger.com0